No .. no .. my situation is different from yours bro. My friend is getting married (a once in a lifetime thing) and didn't tell me until I called him up for a visit that he coughed up the news. Your clubbing is an everyday thing .. go or no go .. friends or co-workers .. really no biggie .. your reaction is more jealous than betrayal.
marry is not a lifetime thing, lol. Anyways. for you problem i will be so piss... especially u guys still call each other.
You're either really self centered or really fucking stupid so I'll break it down for you. The reason he doesn't want to go with the club with you is because he doesn't feel comfortable around you. Like you said, you only talk to him on the phone and rarely meet with him in person. It;s only logical that he would try something new with someone he's more comfortable around like say someone who he sees every day (co-worker). Here's why I think you're self centered and stupid. So you invite him to your birthday and a clubbing event and you get mad because he doesn't go clubbing with you and your friends. I'll start off with the stupid. Ever been to a party where you only know the host? It's really fucking awkward. The reason I know that you're the only person at the party that he actually knows is because he's not a very close friend and also because all of your other friends likes to go clubbing and he doesn't. The fact that you got mad at him for not putting himself in an uncomfortable situation just to make you happy makes you self centered. For what it's worth, you should probably take it easy on the clubbing and read a fucking book. Your English is awful.
WTF? Excuse me, call me old fashioned but I still think marriage is a SACRED and a ONCE in a life time thing. I'm really starting to question your morals Aznmask. And for everyone going on and on about what was originally posted by Aznmask just read my post up at the top and enough said lol.
i dont get mad if he dont come to club with me. Fuck head. I'm just saying he didnt come to club in my birthday. Lets bury this thread. i have enough with you guys.
You keep changing the story of what you said -rotfl In your first post you clearly said you got mad because he didn't go to the club with you all those times you asked then he went with his co-worker. You also said you tried to invite him to the strip club and the club with intention to "find him a girlfriend." And then when we laugh at you for all of this you are like WTF I DIDNT SAY THAT ASSHOLE. Somebody needs some help..
Yi Hey (in Cantonese) loosely means having unshakable integrity or being stoutly principled; especially one who is willing to do things simply to honor one's commitment to another, even as said situation royally sucks and no one in their right mind would ever consider doing something so self sacrificing. Though it borderlines on pathological stupidity, Chinese tend to admire such character traits, especially in friendships. There's an old American joke about the "...friend that is such a good buddy, whenever he goes downtown to get a blowjob, he gets two so that when he comes back and he gives his buddy one too." It's almost that sort of mentality. Typically, TVB serial scripts are replete with such characterizations, especially the ones who exhaust their years of hard earned savings in order to purge a friend's gambling debt; that sort of stupidness.
nope, you did not specify which club you were referring to in your original post (which you deleted.. not sure why. embarassed?) so when you just say that after saying you invited him to the strip club and club then proceed to say you wanted him to find a gf there we all assume you just meant both.
for real why would i ask someone to find a gf from strip club? Okay sorry for whatever reason i caused you guys. Okay plz let me go. I wished i can delete this thread. I already forgive my friend and we still talk on the phone (not as much as before).
Good on you but please reflect on your morals a bit... maybe read the bible or something... Even non religious people would tend to agree that marriage is an once off thing and is very important (in all cultures pretty much).
@Dan ..I am not Chinese too. "Yi hey" - my def is simple .. just about loyalty and sticking up for your friends .. stuffs along that line. Anyway, my situation resolved already. Though I must say, I don't agree with your saying that good friends understand .. blah, blah, blah. I am not gonna argue either because our definition and expectation of friendship are different. This is a subjective matter. Back to Aznmask, why did you erase the op? Talked about forgiveness? Did you really forgive your friend? Cuz your action said differently .. " we still talk on the phone (not as much as before)." You're obviously still mad. Are you the type that holds a grudge for every trivial matter or just this one?? Either way, it's a serious issue man .. get help.
I just wanna say, "ROFLMAO... lolololololol" this thread shall be bookmarked for me to reread hahahaha no offense intended. aznmask... you should ask yourself, throughout this whole discussion, why has no one explicitly sided with you and said, "ya you're fucking right, that's what i would have done. "
@negiqboyz stop come to my thread and pretended you are helping me when you also have problem with your friends. Fix your friends first. I'm a sensitive person that have emotion with me. my emotion sometime is too big that i couldn't control it. I treat my friend fair & honest. I dont take advantage on my best friends. I think this subject become how you view on your friendship. Some people take it serious and while other feel "whatever".
