now you have dirt on your sister. it may come in handy someday well more of presently. nothing you can really do, she has her own choice. unless you are older than her, then do the right thing and be a man.
I really think that guy and my sister are treating me like shit, like they pretend I'm not there. It's really disrespectful. I feel scared when he comes into our house. Now, my mom knows that she is sort of knows they are meeting together when she works. When I tell jokes with my sister, I feel different because both of us are hiding something from each other. I don't have the courage to talk to my sister about this. I'm only a kid. I think i need to tell my mom. I know it's not my choice, but I don't really like that guy. grrr nope. I once stayed watching a movie on tv and that guy wasn't able to come in. lol
This is a very difficult situation to be in... I'm sorry that you have to go through that. Your sister is incredibly immature and inconsiderate to not realize your predicament. I wish there was one solid solution to your scenario, but alas, it is a very difficult situation. For the sake of your sanity, if you speak to your sister and she doesn't care, the only other people left to talk to is your parents. I don't care about her or that guy, I'm more concerned about your sanity and your mental well-being. Tell your folks, if you must. If your sister yells at you, know this: it is not your fault whatsoever.
did he beat your sister or abuse in some other form? if not then your problem is that you don't like the fact that he is having sex with your sister. you were fine with him before but now that you've seen them having sex it's a whole other story. dude - they were having sex before the secrecy you just didn't know about it. honestly, it's none of your business that they're having sex. yes it is rude of them to go at it in the living room and the fact that you saw her giving him a bj is gross. at that point you really should've made some noise so that it stops and they remember you're there. mind your own business and dont be a prick by telling your mom cause what goes around comes around. when you have a gf and she comes over and starts giving your a bj would you want your sis to rat you out? they're not doing drugs they're just having sex. tell your sis to do these things in the privacy of her room and not be loud enough that you hear. if you're too chicken shit to say it to her face then text her with it. you're acting like a little girl right now.
ya, I'm trying not to tell my parents and to stay out of it. Sorry for repeating myself. When my parents leave the house, my sister and I watch our favorite TV show together. And after the show I feel like shit going upstairs because my sister and the guy outside is waiting for me to leave the living room... :( It's like they don't want me there. But now, I don't even watch the show with her anymore. I don't think she wants me to watch the show, so that guy can come into the house an hour early. I still watch the show alone in my room. This sucks.
Lol well the fact that you're not willing to do anything about it is your own fault. "This sucks" because you're not doing anything to make it better.
Your sister is an adult. She needs privacy and space. Doesn't mean you're losing her forever. People "grow up" a bit and go through different phases. IMO relax and just go study or something.
i was thinking that your a creep for spying on your sister giving bj but then i realize this is your house too and they are bossing you out at your own shit which isn't cool at all. Talk to her about it if she dont give a fuck then do what you gotta do.
damn. OP should've came back telling me and us news about him going to jail for assault, and coming back like he got initiated into some GOO WACK JAI GANG. if you go ape shit on him one time, especially in a public setting, you'll set him straigt. LOLZ grow your hair out like chan ho nam and get a chain for your belt..
Continuing my story.. I just told my mom that he comes over. I told my mom not to tell my sister, but my mom told my sister because my mom didn't want him to come over to our house. I was embarrassed by it because of the sex thing. My sister goes to work now. My parents knows that she goes out with him, my dad doesn't like him because he wasn't educated and he broke up with her many times. sometimes that guy is telling my sister to lie to my mom about where they went to, and sometimes she pretends she got off work late. I still don't like him how he treated me like shit when he was forcing my sister to make me leave the living room.
I find it interesting that all the females in this thread are like shut up kid mind your own business, and all the guys are like BEAT HIM UP. hah!
Good point, this thread can be used to study the psychology of the genders. OP You should have just let it be, I side with the ladies here, you should have just minded your own business. I don't bother myself with my sister's relationship troubles, I'm there to support her when things go bad, but I learnt that you can't control everything, sometimes you have to let people burn so they can learn. The only problem I have with your story was the fact that they were getting it on in the living room, for fuck sake, other people sit on that couch, your sister should be more considerate. What you need to do OP is to find something more productive to do FOR YOURSELF rather than worry about this. Let it all resolve itself, however way it's going to end.
Thank you for the respect. I like how that person said 'let people burn, so they can learn'. I think my parents control me too much, that's why I'm like that. They don't really let me make my own decisions. Sometimes, my sister and I hind stuff from our parents. He doesn't come to our house anymore. But since my sister goes to work now, she goes out with him sometimes. I still feel sad when my sister is out with him. All I can think of is $3X.
Just try your best to be objective about it and not do anything too crazy.. If you are capable, you may find a way deal with it tactfully and diplomatically, you will find that carefully chosen words are at times even more effective than fists.
