In a relationship, would you rather be a cheater or to be cheated? If to be cheated you would pay the full price of broken heart, yet cheater would ground the blame of others and from yourself.
C) Neither. I'd leave the relationship if I was THAT tempted to cheat, or if I had valid suspicions that my partner was cheating.
I'd rather be cheated on Either way its not nice, and someone will be hurt!!! BUT I'd only enter a relationship if I was willing to give the other half my everything!!! With that been said, I'd be willing to go through the heartbreak, yes its not going to be nice, but if its not meant to be it's not meant to be...
Honestly, I don't see how anyone would want to be cheated on... idealistically the partner you would be presently with is the partner you hope understands you and you mold together perfectly and there aren't problems that could shake up that bond. Realistically, the longer you are with someone their truer personality comes into play, there isn't any more impressing required, couples carry themselves differently. Those that can accept the changes and adapt (both parties) to it are the relationships that grow to be something great; if only one side is taking in all the changes while the other refuses to accept the relationship is doomed. Sure the other person can choose to get married with that person but honestly I don't see how that person could be truly happy. Therefore, more often than not, people develop irks, thoughts of "What If", tired of routine; this is when the mind wanders. Wanders too far, temptation wins. To answer the original topic honestly, if the relationship is at the point where cheating is viable... I would rather be the one cheating. But also at that point you should have already decided what to do with the then current bf/gf.
Think there has to be an understanding that not everyone shares the same train of throught when it comes to Love, it wouldnt be the first time if someone believed they loved 2people at the same time, some people can be greedy like that! But honestly speaking, ofcourse I dont want to be cheated on, but I think it is wrong to cheat, hence why I would prefer to be cheated on, plus I'm pretty forgiving, and if I had to break up with someone for cheating on me, I'd just make it my mission to ensure they knew they made a big big mistake
Cheated on. The guilt is not worth it, you are the one in the wrong. I would prefered to be the one wronged, because you have not done anything to deserve it. Broken heart? Yes, but furious and rightfully hateful enough to get over it faster than if it were another reason. Guilt, and being a cheater in general would just make me keep telling myself I'm lower than dirt. I sure as hell don't want that. I want to be the better person in that situation.
I agree with you there Jin. Once a cheater always a cheater. It all starts in the mind and if you're happy to act on it then clearly you don't have respect for yourself or your partner. You can't control others' actions but you can at least control your own...one would hope. Besides I'm a big believer of karma. If the love of your life cheats on you now....wait til the love of their life cheats on them. bwahahahaha.
