Is sex really so important?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by gumball, Nov 4, 2006.

  1. tallgirl888

    tallgirl888 Well-Known Member

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    Sex isn't that important if you have a good relationship. Girls and guys should hold back until they are ready...sounds stupid, but its hard to do if there is pressure from their partner...
     
  2. jennstrange

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    sex isn't important, but to many perverts thats all they think about. if you don't wait for the perfect person, the first time will haunt you.
     
  3. shenhin81

    shenhin81 Member

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    sex is not a tool, so don't think that you are alienated. those guys you have dated before is not worth it at all
     
  4. azertyuiop

    azertyuiop Member

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    sex is an important part of any relationship but it isn't the most important aspect
     
  5. aznriceboy

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    Hey gumball, we can't tell you whether or not its better to be a virgin because it all boils down on your morals. Don't let anyone tell you or make the decision for you. Sex is like every guys ultimate goal and that will most likely not change in the time and era. Relationships can work without sex. It is healthy and a good choice to save your virginity for that special someone but a lot of others have a different mindset. Most of my friends are not virgins anymore but they just say they are practicing and getting more experience so that when they get married and find the right person, it will be perfect. I guess that's ok but it all goes down to what you think is right. In the end you will be the one making the decision but I can reassure you that a lot of successful relationships don't involve sex. =P hope that helps you
     
  6. sex isn't really important in a relationship but good sex is :p
     
  7. ipepsi

    ipepsi Well-Known Member

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    depends with who.
    also if sex is good the grl will think its important.
    if the guy alwais win's the race, proble she rather race herself -boat
     
  8. winnz

    winnz Well-Known Member

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    i think whats more important is that you wait until you've met the right guy. don't let others pressure you to have sex when they're like. ohh yur still a virgin. it shouldd be something special.. but then again, nowadays, it's really not that big of an issue now. lol cuz everyone is doing it but still. dont do it cuz everyone else is. only if u want to. and if the guy ever pressures u for sex. tell them to fckk off. u gotta stand your ground.
     
  9. Hubjub

    Hubjub Well-Known Member

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    Don't do it until u know that person is the one u want to be with, the pain that comes with sleeping with someone and later only to break up, is too painful.
     
  10. wysandman

    wysandman Well-Known Member

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    depends on the person you are going out with, but if it is true love sex shouldn't matter that much
     
  11. superchrls

    superchrls Well-Known Member

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    I think sex is important. If you don't give he, it's likely he/she will find it somewhere else.
     
  12. kingzapp

    kingzapp Member

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    Sex is not important in a relationship, you just need to love her/him.
     
  13. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

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    Sex is not that important; treatment/caring etc is more. I think a relationship has to be built before any sex should happen (kissing, etc). Ideally, Like knowing the person for at least one day.


    :D :D:D
     
  14. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    It depends on what u want in life. Do you want to have sex with someone that really loves you, or someone you really love. Then there are others that are just one night stands. If it is someone you really love then I think you have to find out if it is mutual. or else you will be hurt. I think these days it is really hard to get love then sex so I place more value on love more. You can always get sex from a 2 bit w,,,or if you a girl, in a bar... But hey, if u find someone hot and it is a once in a life time thing then go for it girl! go girl!

    -shock
     
  15. HK! Fish

    HK! Fish Well-Known Member

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    sex is really important if u want a family and children in the future, but while ur young isn't a good thing, 'til u know whens a good time to start having sex then it is important..
     
  16. bitterswtz

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    Sex in a serious relationship is quite important. When two people are in love, it's not just sex... they make love! And making love deepens the feelings between two people because you get to connect in very special ways. The relationship only grows stronger and closer.

    No one should ever give up their first time to just anyone. Fall in love first. And if he doesn't want you because you're a virgin... then he's definitely not worth it.
     
  17. da1nonlythun

    da1nonlythun Member

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    I don't think Sex is necessary for a good relationship!
     
  18. rliew1

    rliew1 Member

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    it does help to bring two person together
     
  19. joannang

    joannang Active Member

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    okay i'm not a guy. but i think that sex shouldnt matter, i'm sure you wouldnt want to be with those guys who just stopped calilng you because u wouldnt have sex with them. i dont think its a matter of saving virginity for marriage thats important, but the fact that you need to be with someone who means enough to you so that you would feel like he's worth it to lose your virginity to him.
     
  20. mmeranger

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    Sex is important to some extend.
    Most people wont give up a because the other refuses to have sex. But it still can create some tension which might eventually lead to the end of the relationshipt.
    So my advice is: Stop worrying. Find a bf and if he dumbs you because you wont have sex with him, he wasnt meant for you. So dont change yourself for some boy, rather find one that fits.