since these past months i've been dating this one guy like 2 months already. he is my boyfriend, canto also. n then after that, like last week my heart breaks because of him n i've been crying my eyes off. n i've not been with one of my other 'girlfriend' instead. i kind of tick her off, n then fall for this guy. but then later on we've been having some love triangle type of way, him, me, and this one other guy. but then he told me that he liked this one guy more better than me, cuz he sees him everyday n sees me some other days but not as much as him. n he says that if someone sees someone more than the other, they have more feelings for that person. n that IS true tho. first, he told me that he loves me, n now when he says that he loves this other guy, but for real he only loves him as a 'brother' cuz he seems cool. but now him and this other guy are just friends, n he says that he was blind from before, n now he doesn't have feelings for him no more, just only as a good friend. he still says that he loves me, but he was trying to use his feelings to make this guy be his 'good' friend instead, n for real he doesn't love him tho. he doesn't want to let me know clearly, cuz he knows that i'll love him back.. but now i think it's kinda hard for me to fall in love with him this time. i used to like him a lot, but now i'm kinda tired and not feel like i like him anymore. he thinks about me a lot, but i don't seem to care about his feelings. cuz he only wanted that guy to be his true friend, cuz he seem to be disagreeing and stuff a lot with him.. and he just only want a good friend to be with. n i fall for him, n now we are still friends, but i don't feel like we are friends now, i just feel like i don't want to see him anymore. n last time he told me to meet him privately, but i didn't go. i think it's b/c i've liked him for about 1 half yr. already, and when i didn't really see him throughout this whole year plus, i've kinda not miss him anymore. he understands my feelings that, i've basically like him if i see him, and if i don't see him then i don't have feelings for him. he likes me after a long time since i liked him, now he likes me but i don't seem to have any personal feelings for him at all. what should i do to this feeling? cuz now i don't feel like i love or like him no more. but he's been my friend for so long, n i dont' want to not have contact with him, i still want to be friends with him, but i don't know if i'm willing to see him or having contact with him any longer. cuz now i see is that i don't really like canto guys as much, they seem to hurt my feelings a lot. and i've been having problems with the girl that i was with before, which she is one of my lover from before this guy that i've fallen for, but now we've got back with each other again. n now i feel like i hate him for all i care. -cry2
wow..u come bak to pa heartbroken..so he is gay or seomthing? wat about u and that "girl" in ur post long time ago...well goood lcuk with life!!..life sux
ya that was my first reaction. is he gay? who saids that they wanna break off cus they wanna spend more time with another guy? obviously hes not worth ure time if he can say that. what an ass. just forget him. theres plenty of more guys out there than this one. this feeling will roll over and u'll find another guy
The way I read it is that they are three guys and one of them is changing back to normal... Either that, Fish is really messed up with the situation and is not writing clearly
well, i dont' think he was in the wrong way of being gay, cuz he ISN'T now.. he was just trying to make this guy his better friend, since he and him doesn't really get along as much when they are friends. ahah.. i was trying to write clearly, but it's hard since u don't know the right feelings to say this. no, it's just two guys.. one is my boyfriend/friend and the other is his friend. i'm kinda confused on what to do right now....... so lost. -cry2
wow, ahh, well if this dude really likes you he should have been clear with his feelings towards you. Honestly, i'd feel offended in ur shoes from ur bf, if he could think of liking another guy while dating you. I say u should just try to be friends with the dude instead. Its too complicated and unfair for you.
sorry about the miscommunications; I misread the text. I really find it strange that someone would pick a guy over his girlfriend. Most guys I know, would not hang with me if they have a date; unless there is a hidden agenda (e.g. sometime he wants from me). So from the text that you wrote, it looks like (1) he wants something from this guy (2) he needs some time away from you (3) he wants to blow you off by giving you a lame excuse. What would I do? (1) Find out which one of the three he is trying to execute (2) Go out with girlfriends and have some fun (2) download lots of fun video to watch hehe (3) Study if you are going to school (4) Drink lots of water (don't eat alot or u get fat (5) Make some new friends and make him jealous Have fun
i think he picked him is b/c he sees him more than me. like (way more).. n besides, he always chat and say stuff about him but deep down inside he still likes me the same as him. he considered him as a brother now, n consider me as his lover still.. n when i see him, he shows his true love for me but just that he's abit shy.. n he doesn't even show any feelings for the other guy at all when i was next to him. n i've had some "guy friends" also, but i don't really like to do or flirt with them as much to get ppl jealous, but i do that sometimes tho. but i don't wanna do it to him, cuz i've known him for some while already, like over 3 yrs. n that just seems wrong if i do that to him. i mean, he really do still have feelings for me, it's just that i don't seem to have feelings for him back unless if i see him in person. i've just only want to be his friend now, but i seem like i don't feel like wanting to communicate with him no more, even as a friend... but i want to still keep in contact with him. u know wat i mean right? cuz i only like him when i see him, but when i don't, i don't even wanna think about him or ever wanting to see him again. but sometimes even tho we don't talk to each other, i still see him in his resturant cuz his parent owned a resturant. so i can't do nothing about it, that's why i try not to go to his resturant and act like i never knew him.. but sadly, that doesn't help.
sad huh?.. i can't believe that i'm heartbroken cuz of that, it seems so stupid tho.. but i can't help it... -cry2 i've wrote about the girl in my 1st post already...... we've got back together after i was being stupid to lose her like that.. i shouldn't have lose her in the first place, i made up so many things that i have done to set her mind back.. i felt stupid by losing her tho.. but now it's alright since we don't break up no more. but idk, i feel like i don't know anything no more about this guy thing... he seems to mess my mind up sometimes.. but yet, i still like him when i see him. i kinda want to get rid of him but i don't know how. no matter wat, i always see him. -cry2
hmmm. It looks like your gf needs a bf to double date to be friends...and your bf's friend needs a gf... a double date 4 u guys????
wow.. if you're being dumped by a gay.. i feel for you.. T.T but hey now plenty other guys could get lucky cause you're single
it doesnt seem like you like this guy alot, just dont get yourself involved if not seeing him makes u lose feelings
