how to keep a man loyal to you??

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by tracyteoh, Dec 4, 2006.

  1. tracyteoh

    tracyteoh Member

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    Any suggestion????
     
  2. drunked

    drunked Active Member

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    just make the relationship the best that it can be, treat him good, be loyal to him, dont fight...

    most of the time i see guys cheat on a girl is because of relationship issues like fight or arguement, this is when they are vulnerable to cheating :p

    if you keep the relationship smooth and happy then im sure that will help...
     
  3. joannang

    joannang Active Member

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    try to compromise, be understanding, considerate, work things out
     
  4. evalnekochan

    evalnekochan Well-Known Member

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    be happy :)
     
  5. AVANT

    AVANT Well-Known Member

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    Find the right man.

    Don't suffocate the man.

    Don't try to control to man, do things that will attract your man. Typical boring stuff is just that... no fun.
     
  6. sn00py

    sn00py Well-Known Member

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    The key to a man's heart is his stomach. Guys like gals cooking delicious food for them. ;-)
     
  7. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member


    haha. For girls it is the same thing.

    U have to look it like it is an animal. Some days it might bite, so stay away. Some days it is happy, so snugggy, etc .

    -rockon
     
  8. Angel Chan

    Angel Chan New Member

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    i wouldn't say absolutely no arguing ... then i don't consider that a relationship. every relationships have their ups and downs. it's how you get to know your partner~

    how to keep a man loyal?
    like the others said, don't suffocate the guy and give him space but don't act like you don't care at all.
    treat him with respect and he'll do the same to you.
    you have to be loyal to him as well, that's a given.
     
  9. Yuhsuke

    Yuhsuke Well-Known Member

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    I'm a guy and I'll tell you this. IT TOTALLY DEPENDS ON WHO AND THE PERSONALITY OF THE GUY! Seriously. Easiest way is to learn more about his behaviour, his likes and dislikes then compromise. Also, treat others the way you want to be treated. so if you don't want him to cheat on you, don't cheat on him.
     
  10. subx0va

    subx0va Member

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    well i think itz mainly jus give us space dont be going all crazy unless he wants to of course
     
  11. AVANT

    AVANT Well-Known Member

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    That's part of my "Find the right man".

    Tip to girls: don't go for guys that wants you to choke them and cling to them like glue. They generally have issues and you shouldn't be keeping those.

    The good relationships that I find have a lot more giving and no so much compromising. Compromise is more like a trade off and always sounds like it's a sacrifice of some sort. Believe it or not, relationships do exist where the couples are happy to do or stop something not because they want the relationship to last, but because they care so much about the person to actually WANT to take that step whole heartedly. <--- good thing the english majors aren't around to critique these sentences.
     
  12. peachey

    peachey Well-Known Member

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    lol! I guess a better question would be "how to go about finding The Right Man?" [​IMG]

    I don't get it. Compromising in a relationship is considered sacrifice, whereas giving without expecting anything in return is not? [​IMG]
     
  13. AVANT

    AVANT Well-Known Member

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    Exactly! It's the attitude and perspective behind it.
     
  14. itsderekk

    itsderekk Member

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    The best way is treat him with the respect you want you be treated and with a lot of care.
     
  15. iceman

    iceman New Member

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    Very hard question. if a guy want to cheat on you, no matter what you do he will cheat on you. Like other posts, resect him and yourself and do what you think is right. If he happen to cheat on you, then there are many other better guy out there.
     
  16. mjc_789

    mjc_789 Member

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    dont be so jealous..and be honest ...be understandable..and give whatever he wants ..if u know just only things..give it to him..make him happy..if he want a sports car..and u know that u can afford it ..buy it to him..thats the best things u can mke your relationship better...trust me..the guy never leave u for something you're boring..cuz u give him a lot..
     
  17. renegade_cash

    renegade_cash Well-Known Member

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    give him a PS3!!!
     
  18. peachey

    peachey Well-Known Member

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    lol! Yeah, I trust you. I mean, if a guy's buying me diamonds and other materialistic items as well as catering to all my wants, I wouldn't leave him either [​IMG]
     
  19. beyond

    beyond Member

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    just feed him!!!
     
  20. eddiegor

    eddiegor Member

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    Find the right guy who has morals and he wont cheat, find a right girl who has morals and she won't cheat..

    Whether or not the relationship is going GOOD or BAD those types won't cheat.