What to do..??

No no... yarg got it right... there's already a duff :(

Think again. Trying and failing = She might tell her group of friends and you'll have no chance with any of them. Not trying and getting to know all her friends = More friends and more likelihood that one of them will like you.

P.S. Notice it's only the girl that's cheering you on? If there's one lesson a man should learn, is to not listen to women in dealing with women. It's just a simple -nono Did your mom teach you to always be nice and cater to girls? But who do you see hot girls clinging to? The jerks...

 

i'm sure if he tries to go for any of her fds later on that girl would tell her fd what happened between them n may b his ex too... it doesn't make much of a difference...

 

I dont think i want to date her whole group of friends LoL...

I didnt even know they were friends, it was just a coincident...

so yeh i dont really care what they say if this doesnt work out

 

awe...dats soo adorable...dats actually
a good chance to show her u really like
her...fight for her...nd den she will be
very happy to know that u did all thsi for her

 

Well then, you chose your path, which is great. GL to you. Just don't ever turn back and think... damn... AV was right. Haha, j/p. You can always say I'm right. -unsure

Go get your girl man -thumbsup

P.S. Still only the girls think your idea is great.

Not true. If you end it on a friendly note in this situation, only real thing to say is how he respected her decision when it mattered. Not, i couldn't beat him off with a stick.

 

if you guys are friends? then why would it even break the friendship? just go on and go for her

 

lol so what happend with you drunkd?

 

What is the role of ex ?

Pardon my ignorance, but what has your ex got to do with the relationship?

We all move on with our life - be it studying overseas, working overseas, move to next company, change profession, etc.

Do you expect your ex to follow you and her all the way ??

 

Well well.. sorri for not updating this post... i totally forgot i made it until now..

well here's an update on the situation..

after reading all the advice and suggestions here i decided to continue to annoy her and try to get to know her more, but things didnt go so well..

we decided that it was best to stay as friend because she just couldnt go through with it...

sad sad story aye ? hehe

well about 2 weeks after that i bumped into her at this club, we didnt get to chat a lot but when i got home that night, i received a txt msg from her saying that after i saw her, i have been on her mind all night..

some good news haha

well after that we decided to take it slowly and started to talk again, try to get to know each other better and take our time..

and all this really pays off because she is now finally my gf

happi ending...

thanks everyone for your advice and suggestions... *clap* *clap*

 

if she also really likes u and u like her u should go out but first u should tell her friends so that it wont be as unconfortable for her....but i think both of u should tell her and see how she feels...it might mean nothing to her....

 

If she likes you and you like her alot why not go for it... Cause your ex can't stop the two of you having feelings for each other...

 

well, i really think it depends on the relationship you had with your ex. if the relationship was short, like you said, then what's wrong with that? unless she really really liked you, or still likes you. in that case, it would be a no-no to go for the friend. it also depends on how long ago your relationship with the ex was. if it was recent, it might be better if you wait a bit. If you and the new girl really do like each other, the ex can't do anything about it.

 

grats dude, u got her now, determination all the way

and ya i agree wit that winnz said... couldn't have said it any better

 

hey man.. i'm just tryin to increase my post count so i can download some jj lin .. i dun really give a shit about u and this girl.. but ... uhhh... u do what u need to do meng have fun

 

god dam leechers shootin shit around. Dill. hehe

I say go back to the ex. it's all about her.

 

I wish I could be a mod -evil

 

gtfo of my thread -dead ...

 

You're thinking too much about it. Just do it. And buy a pair of sneakers.

 

Amateurs. -cool

Get a friend to go talk to ur ex. Make sure the new girl sees that and then if the new girl finds out that u went out with her, u can accuse ur x for cheating on u and she was using u for money etc etc. Also tell the new girl that;s she is not trustworthy.

Then u r not a bad guy nemore.

That;s wat my friend did. OMFG.

-cool

 

yea.!!

Dill Leecher ar.

Arm da la.

haha-cool