That's sad.. Scenarios like that makes me scared of being in a relationship...-unsure Personally, I would not forgive him, I doubt that he was "hammered" to the point where he didn't know what on Earth he was doing.. Being drunk does lower your inhibitions, but doesn't give you license to cheat one someone. Its up to you to forgive or not, but remember that you are not obligated to forgive him and if he's the type thats like: "I said I'm sorry, I was drunk, why can't you understand that? I'm sorry.".. (as in the pushy type) Hes 100% selfish and is only seeking forgiveness to clear his conscience, thats all. If he's truly sorry, he would understand that: 1. You're not obligated to forgive him, after all he's the one that cheated, not you. 2. Even after, if you forgive him, it may take some time before you can fully trust him again like you used to, and he shouldn't expect things to return back to normal promptly 3. You also have the right not to forgive him and he should understand and respect that.. However, if you do forgive him, forgive and forget, because thats the worst thing, if he really is apologetic, if an argument comes up and you throw that back in his face.. So if forgiven, truly forgive and forget. That's it!
No, you shouldn't forgive him even though he said he was drunk and didn't know what he was doing b/c it should be obvious that he wanted to get some from the girl
Nobody, I repeat, NOBODY can get drunk to the point that they don't realize they are having sex unless they are passed out. If that person is awake, they will know if they're having sex. So to answer the OP's question, no, I would not give forgiveness because that person knowingly had sex with someone else.
i would forgive him.. he could have kept it hidden away forever but he didnt. doesnt that say something?
drunk really isn't an excuse...because i've been really drunk before and no matter how drunk you get...you still sorta have concious and know what is going on. and if he really didn't want to do it with her....he could have walked away...so it's not forgivable. and if you forgive him...would you really ever trust him again getting drunk at a club without you there?
Can you even get your stuff working when you're wasted ? If everything's still working well he was conscious enough to know what he was doing I think, lol
well .. this happened to my friend, her bf cheated on her while he was drunk, she grant him 2nd chance .. BUTT .. he did it again .. afterall "once a cheater, always a cheater"
yup yup, well it depends on the degree of cheating... if it goes like holding hands, kissing then thats just going too far I think so no 2nd chances for those.
i don't think it's an excuse. in the end he still cheated on you...he had sex with another girl. it shouldn't be forgiveable.
He was out with boys so how come he can hooks up with a girl in the end? He was not that wasted if he still remember his home address and back home safe, sound and had sex.
grrr it's annoying when they use taht excuse... i was drunk and didn;t know what i was doing!... stupid! no way.... i woukdn;t give him a second chance!
hmmm.... I sticked it in because I thought it was the urinal. My lips missed b/c I was drunk I thought they were my legs It was cold so I thought her butt was the heater her neck had some beer so I licked it she had beer all over her so I help her changed hehe
by telling u the situation would make the relationship gone worst but can also make u 2 knowing each other more =D i wouldn't risk it
there`s a line between forgiving and completely stupid .. for those of u felt offended, please do forgive me for being so blunt -worship -worship If he doesn`t have any slightest intention on cheating on the girlfriend.. why would he drink on the first place? there`re no such thing as "Ops, i`m sorry my bad" in that area.. then again, say u forgave him.. would it teach him good enough lesson for him not to drink & cheat again in the future? well.. then again mistake does happen they said ..
in my opinion...i wouldn't forgive them and pretend nothing happen...obviously they will do it again...if they come back begging you their forgiveness...
