Ok, so a while back I asked a girl out. She says she's busy, but doesn't offer a time when she is free. I figured she just wasn't interested in me. Now the thing is I really like her, but I'm afraid of looking like a loser who can't take a hint if I ask her out again. Or is it possible that she might look more favorably on me if I do ask again since it would mean I'm serious about her. Someone please help! Thanks.
er maybe she's nervous or something meeting you, try going out with her in a group of friends and slowly work on going out with her one on one
maybe you're jus looking into it too much. Jus ask her out casually.. but don't make it sound like a date date. Just be like.. oh when are you free? wanna hang out? and if she tells you to stop following her home.. then you should take a hint.
Personally, I reckon you should go for it. So what if you look like a loser! At least you'll have tried, and at least you'll get a straight answer as opposed to 'hints'. To put it simply, she never said "No way!" did she? Exactly!! Shows that she is simply playing hard to get, rather than putting you off all together. Maybe she wants you to ask her more? ^_^ Good luck!!
Try a different kind of approach if i may say .. since girls are quite pleased if they`re being flattered.. u know.. seeing more efforts on the Guy side.. show her the other side of u .. perhaps she`ll be more "intrigued" if i may say .. and hopefully interested enough to go out with you slightly more challenge? don`t throw yourself at her Mind u, girls are always feel curious and up to a certain challenge .. And fix your line .. i mean the chat line .. how u ask her out and all that stuff.. and the most important thing.. Self Confidence Girls love guys with a great self confidence .. it`ll prevent u from the lame remarks
and the smiley spammage award goes to..... -lol Is this girl some stranger or a friend?? how did u even ask her out in the first place??
or ask her out with a couple of friends first... then let her get to know you better thats a better start.
I work in a computer room at a university and she comes in sometimes. I've helped her out a couple of times. She seems nice and I think she's really cute. Thanks for the replies everyone. I'm not sure if I'll ask again though. We kind of had a casual-friendly relationship and since I've asked I feel like she tries to avoid me. :(
Is that the way girls are? I dunno, I imagine most girls wouldn't give a "No way!" response unless they are really mean, or the guy is a jerk. She is also Asian, and you know how they tend to be more indirect when communicating.
>.< Ops.. couldnt help it -innocent2 -innocent2 @alphabet Well first of all.. dunt say bluntly on her face u want to ask her out .. Be resereved but not too reserved .. make her wonder.. Be nice but not too nice .. get to know her a bit more.. have a conversation .. make her laugh.. i do agree cracking some jokes is like breaking some ice .. but don`t get too comfortable, when u`re crossing the best friend line u can`t turn back try to flirt now and then .. there`s no harm at flirting... joke a bit.. u said u help her .. when u do that again.. ask her to go have a cup of coffee.. not dinner .. not just yet .. she could read your intentions on your face.. .. so.. be casual .. or u may go extreme by annoying her .. it`ll make her notice u allright But aware of the risk .. she might hate u enough to like u.. but when things not goes like it`s planned.. then.. bad luck ..
ahahahha AHHH!!!! bluemoon's at it again.. but hmm it's kinda pleasing in a way to look at all those smileys... yea ABCDEFG Man.. you need to try n talk to her more... don't jus break out the 'you wanna go out' outta nowhere.. now what you need to do is get to know her more.. and let her kno more about you. She prolly feels a bit uncomfortable now. So now you gotta make her feel like you're not some psycho working in the comp. room. After awhile, you should be able to ask her out.. but do it casually like oh let's hang out.. or oh need some help studying?? stuff like that.
yea !.. take densha otoko as a role model he`s an otaku & pulled it off with an Out-of-his-league chick .. hahahahaa.. i shouldn`t say that shouldn`t i .. oh my bad -innocent2 As for the smileys.... aaaaaaaaaah.. i just type it along with wht i write.. and coz of that i found people teasing me in every forum i`m in .. lol.. oh well.. -rolleyes
