i think it is important...but how do you know which will eb the right guy?? here is always give and take about everything
I don't go into relationships for sex. I go into them for the conversation and company. Oh, God, if this wasn't the internet, I wouldn't be able to keep a straight face.
Well I think its important when you reach that certain point. Wonder whats the longest time a couple stayed together and never had sex...
well sex is an important part in relationships but its not something they can't do without. it all depends on the relationship, i'm sure you'll find the right guy who'll respect you for your decision not to have pre-marital sex. however it would suck if people were rushed into marriages just because their partners wanted sex. main thing is, you decide on what is right and stick with it, don't let others pressure you into anything you don't want. however you should understand that sex can be a big part in relationship and may become an issue within them
Good conversation is a turn-on, sex doesn't come until much later. But hell, I won't sink THAT low to get into a relationship for sex.
Not everyone is in it for sex, and I dont think all guys prefer the more experienced girls. Which guy doesnt like a virgin?? So for those guys who dont return your phone calls then perhaps they are just in it for the sex. How do u know u will enjoy it with the guy your gonna marry? Look at it this way "u gotta try before u buy."
sex isnt everything. it could be just a part of love or it could be a part of desire. u dont have to love someone to have sex with them, its just a to release yourself. if they really love you, you dont need sex to be everything in da relationship, there are tons of things u can do to show each otheer love.
Yes sex = making love its just a way to express ur feeling towards the gal.. i think in a relationship, sex is very important to keep the game going.
I cant believe why people are making such a big deal about sex. Isn't it cool to be a virgin? I think it is something to be proud of! Come on, if these guys didnt call u back because they know you are a virgin... you should be happy instead! It is sooo stupid... I dont think sex is THAT important. I like kissing and hugs more than sex.. Well I think. Still a virgin here.. but so what?
YES .. DEFINETELY YES... LIFE AND LOVE WITHOUT SEX = DIE .... SEX can express HOW U LOVE OR BE LOVED BY SOMEONE
y is it being a virgin is such a shameful things nowadays ? shouldnt it be the most precious thing to treasure ? ermm.. i just dun understand why.. Anyway, i've no objection with pre-marital sex.. but my principle is tat he/she must be someone you really Love.. so both of you will enjoy and cherish the nite forever.. with no regret
agreed. think about it this way -- is it healthy being in a relationship with a person if you are never sexually attracted to them?? i say no thank you! but i dont think that the idea of 'saving' yourself is impossible. lots of girls/guys have no trouble doing so.
women are often hypocrites about the issue of "sex". From all the female replies I've read so far...it seems like women responding to the post either haven't experienced sex or haven't had good experiences with it. In fact, most women who have long term relationships have enjoyed sex with their partners. Some demand it at times when the fellas aren't up for it. It's true. I am hearing all this nonsense about "saving yourself". You give yourself so much expectations for your "first time" that you and your partner will probably fall way short. It's an unfair/unrealistic goal/expectation to achieve. If you have such high expectations, it'd be a)unfair to your partner and b) setup yourself for failure. Sex is an essential part of a long term relationship which helps a couple bond/reconnect with one another at times when they're really busy in life and have forgotten the significance of one another. It's been well documented that sex's an integral part of a healthy relationship.
First of all, many guys responded previously saying sex is just sex etc. And most girls agree that you should not be letting a guy push you into things. Reason? for boys they think about sex at an earlier age and explore themselves when they're young. They don't see it as a big deal. And they don't see sex the same way we girls do. When a girl lose her virginity for the first time, she would probably feel like her privacy was invaded. Because for girls it is internal and for boys it is external. Sex is NOT essential in a relationship. If you feel that you are ready for sex, then go for it. If you are considering it, then you are probably ready. But don't lose your virginity because you want a guy to stay together with you longer. If he doesn't want to wait until you are ready then he is an a**h*** and does not deserve you. You will know when you will be ready.
