Cheating!

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mint_T, Sep 22, 2006.

  1. bonbon2

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    Ok, if my spouse cheated on me.. I'd demand to know why.. Cuz if two people are in love enough to get married to each other there has to be a good enough reason for them to cheat. But ultimately, I would file for divorce, because a relationship is based on trust and being honest. I mean two people marry each other usually cuz they truly love each other, if some other chick could just come in a ruin that, they're no point in sustaining the relationship. Like others have said, if it could happen once, it could happen again.
     
  2. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    Maybe it is a physical thing!!!

    I heard that the women in HK KNOWINGLY allow their husbands go to China to fool around. But the condition is that they don't fall in love. This is coming from one buddy that comes back often to North America to visit his family.

    When this happens then you have to decide if you accept or not?
     
  3. pastrami

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    It depends on the couple I think, if they're always keeping things exciting then I don't see how they can cheat on each other if they love each other ... cheesy but true :)
     
  4. chariot28

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    I've heard this too. Apparently, a number of traditional chinese women have this belief that men are animals and it's in their nature to 'let off steam', so they turn a blind eye when that happens (so long as the men are discreet and the women can save face!).-shock

    However, I think that belief is becoming less and less popular...!!!! -nono
     
  5. brybie

    brybie Well-Known Member

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    to be honest.. one does what one wants.. men who cheat are weak.. this is coming from a guy btw.. i dont condone cheating either :)
     
  6. bubblegum

    bubblegum Well-Known Member

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    honestly, if i ever find out, that guy will die with no dick. i mean it.
     
  7. ^ whoa... i guess i dont wanna be your husband.. hahaha
     
  8. bubblegum

    bubblegum Well-Known Member

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    why? u're planning to cheat? -bash

    HAHA. but seriously, i'm not that mean. before anything, i'd tell him not to f*** with me or thats what's gonna happen. -worship
    i'll beat the living shit out of him too n get me a nice damn pair of scissors n cut all his clothes. seriously, even the thought of it infuriates me. if u don't want me nemore, then tell me u ****ing d1ckshit. why bother letting this drag on n waste my time, my feelings, play with my emotions when u know the outcome will not be good? time is precious to me. if he would've told me earlier n we've gotten a divorce, then go touch 36463 s***s out there..i don't care. but as long as we are still legally married n are committed to each other, i expect ur damn commitment. if commitment is no longer there, tell me so we can solve this a.s.a.p n i can find myself another man. n oh, u would still have ur dick. -rolleyes

    bLahhh. enough with my ranting :)
     
  9. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    easier said then done
     
  10. damn girl.... :p

    for the record, first, i dont and will not cheat. second, i just said the previous post for the hell of it. third, just... DAYUM!! never seen a girl as feisty as you. -cool
     
  11. brown_bear

    brown_bear ☆‧° ☆﹒﹒‧ ☆ ﹒﹒‧☆‧° ☆

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    ^ haha dann you say that now but you never know your male :p
     
  12. im not the average male bbear. im the male that all girls come to for advice about relationships, when they cry, when they bitch and whatnot. and thats called the "nice male" i think. and no. im not gay. i care.

    dont believe me? book a plane ticket to toronto, and ill show you. ;)
     
  13. brown_bear

    brown_bear ☆‧° ☆﹒﹒‧ ☆ ﹒﹒‧☆‧° ☆

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    ^ sure you book me a 1st class ticket
     
  14. ok ill book you a plane ticket! put yourself in a box that says "fragile", and "top facing upward", and put yourself in a cargo plan. ill pay for shipping ;) haha im just kidding bbear
     
  15. bubblegum

    bubblegum Well-Known Member

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    yea, thas what all guys say at 1st. n then what do they do? go cheat on their wife w/ some young prostitute or manipulative sl*t from vietnam -worship

    that better be a compliment, b1tch. -cool
     
  16. no its not a compliment. haha just playin. but try me, and see if im like all guys. ;)
     
  17. bubblegum

    bubblegum Well-Known Member

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    u're a guy, of course u're like all guys -rolleyes
    n no, i don't go for donkies. -worship or should i say jackasses? -lol
     
  18. szetor

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    what the hell. does dann really love shrek's donkay or someth!?!? haha
     
  19. bubblegum: haha damn you got me there.

    szetor: yea you got a prob with that? lol
     
  20. kenshi

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    I remember reading an article the other day about women have trouble keeping their men once they get them.

    Attracting them is one thing but keeping them is another story.