i dunno, the issue of flowers was something interesting last year. my friend yelled at her bf for several hours because he refused to get flowers for her for valentimes i mean he got her everything else, chocolates, a little gift and he drove up two hours to see her (he doesn't have alot of money) so he didn't want to get her flowers because they just die i dunno i kinda agree i'm a girl, i like flowers and all but i guess i rather get a gift that will last longer than a week (unless it's food related like chocolates, or ICECREAM) like stuff animals (but i have to many, so no) or jewlery or something special like a photo frame with a memory in it that i can put up and brag about the guy i like has a similar view on flowers, such a waste, cause they just die so instead for my birthday he got me an ice cream scoop (since i moved into a new place, besides having dinner with me) and he buys me ice cream every so often (not for birthday or christmas) anyways so the question i GIRLS: what is your view on recieving flowers? a must? or a waste of money? or in between i would say i still enjoy flowers on rare occasions, but maybe on random nights as a suprise, instead of specialize holidays where they are expected BOYS: what if your view on buying flowers for your girl lastly BOYS AND GIRLS: what are your views on girls buying flowers for the guy?
Well personally...i dunt have a huge thing for flowers...but i think some gurls want them its because they a beautiful...beauty of nature.. so thats y they like it...but i dunt think its necessary... Girls buyimg flowers for a guy...hmm..i dunno about that...cuz guyz usually dont have the feeling towards flowers then the gurls...guyz jsut buy them beacuse their girlfrds likes them...
see this is why girls are evil... -lol I mean I don't think it would have hurt him to get at least one rose for her... but I mean if she was hopin' for a whole bouquet.. then.. thas not the guys fault at all...
every single fem i know has a thing about wanting flowers on vals day from their significant other...its like its programmed into u fems or sometin...
LoL!! Nahhh I'm not as predictable as u think ^^ But yeah...looks like that girl just cares about all that c**p >.<
lol yes... you are quite unpredictable... damn I would be hella pissed if I was the guy... driving that far jus to get yelled out!?? like wtf?? he was trying to be all romantic with sweets n gifts.. but what does she do?? totally kills the mood and flips...
U kno what its sweet when a guy does... But its meaningless if u have to tell him or make him do it >.<
aww that guy is so sweet to have driven up for 2 hours to meet her too -blush2 erm with flowers it doesnt really matter to me as long as he makes up with a good substitute
well thats all nice..but what did she give in return? Or is valentine a one sided thing? And if he did give her flowers...then she should give him her flower too? just kidding, bad joke, but seriously wtf? if it makes her THAT happy...just draw some or snip it from her neighbors. or better yet give her seeds so she can toil over them instead of expect them.
Flowers ? no flowers ... they have an old saying : FLOWERS CAN't LAST LONG .. IF U Give The One U love Flower, then .. ur relationship also can't LASt LOng .... like the flowers ... agree ? hehehee... i agree ( Save Me time for Choosing Flowers and Then have to throw them away when they DIE... )
you know what, when i was a little kid, before all this global warming crap, i used to pick up a whole bunch of wild flowers (like the yellow weed or like the purple kind) and gave it to the girl i liked see, its free, and has sentimental values. no need to buy expensive flowers i say roses are over-rated. if i had to buy, id buy a whole bouquet of different kinds of flowers and bright colors.. not a bouquet of red roses... GIRLS OR
I think the tradition of giving flowers on V-day is much more a commerialized thing nowadays. smallrinilady - thanks for bringing up about your friend's reactions to not getting flowers. That relationship btw your friend and her b/f must not be strong. Or else a) he probably would've known how important flowers meant to her and b) he would've known how sensitive she is. Your friend in my description so far is that of a prune. The gifts that a person give during this particular day is from the heart. It's not supposed to be superficial. She showed her true colours by even revealing such personal events to her friends. I don't suppose this couple is spending many more V-days together. If they are, I really pity the guy. I know many people here have commented that flowers just die. There are different ways of looking at that subject. You can say that when the flowers die off is that a chapter of your lives have ended and a new one is starting. I think it's all due to individual interpretation. ... they have an old saying : FLOWERS CAN't LAST LONG .. IF U Give The One U love Flower, then .. ur relationship also can't LASt LOng .... like the flowers ... (I personally don't belive sayings like this.) Using the above saying and twisting it like that....would it also signal that IF U Give the one you love some fake flowers, then your relationship is fake as well?
