ok, i need some help. What is the best way to ask out someone that wouldn't end up being akward. I know Valintines day is coming up, but should i wait untill then? also if i do wait till then, what should i buy, or should i not buy anything? Any response would help
i think if you haven't ask that person out before; I would wait till after VD. VD is kinda special day; might be too much pressure if you ask that person out on that day. That's my opinion.
well.. I say if you've been dropping hints, maybe she's actually anticipating it? If she is, it'd probably be a nice day to ask. Probably a small bouquet of flowers? Nothing too extreme, or something even more modest would be a small-medium box of chocolate (wrapped, preferably)
make it three says do`` be brave and just ask and give her somefin small on da day`` i don't think there is any other day where it wouldn't be less awkward... love` mon
Ask that person out AFTER valentine's day. If you do it before it will seem very impulsive, and insincere, just because they'll think you're just doing it because it's getting close to valentine's day.
Could someobody give me a clear ANSWER!!!!!! i really want to know what to do and valintines is about to come.
but isn't that a bit weird, setting up all that and stuff. like wouldn't it be too too much???????????
Yah i decided not to, now i think she is a bit mad at me. like today, she kinda ignored me and stuff. when i asked her wats wrong, she said nuthign and said she was tired and left. did i do something wrong???
OMFG, u listening to that guy that p at tree? LOL/ JK/ Meng Ha. u screwed up meng. Whatever u do, don try to make it up. cause it gonna get worse. Let her cool down a bit. If she likes u, it will be okay, but treat her NICE next time. Duh. what's wrong/ OMG
hmm...thanks adrianc lol. I say, you explain to her what happens. I've never been able to get into the mind of a women about this. It's pretty complicated. I know she probably feels disappointed. But if she's the right girl, talking things out with her might solve the problem. But dude, don't listen to me. Think it over before you act. I've been in this situation a few times. Let me tell you, I haven't figured out a way of solving it hehe. It's a bit too late for you to try anything. Good luck.
never let yourself like a girl more than she likes you. so if shes all ignoring you and crap... and NOT wanting to talk it out. shes definitely not worth your time. because even if she gives you a second chance after you grovel and swallow your dignity. you gonna be her little lap dog. do not put EXTRA effort in at this point to fix it... if you do it just shows her that you will do pretty much anything everytie shes"unhappy" about something. dunno bout you... but TVB/k dramas arent real life.
^ you're right. My last girlfriend, I spoiled her. And she mistreated me so much. Can believe her? She thinks that because I'm the guy, I have to pamper her. Do everything, from waiting to walking her to somewhere, to paying for everything. And I did just that. Until recently I've realized I wasn't happy. SO I DUMPED HER! She wanted me back afterwards. But I stood my ground and turned her down.
