First, Trong, stop posting, u don't have any good advice. second, i havn't done anyhting other than talking to her liek nothing happens. So now i don't know what to do. she's been dress up so nice and i mean so nice the past two days. i don't want to be rude and ask why all of a suddent she all dressing up. but like today we were watching a movie in class and she like turn her back on my the whole class untill i started talking to her, then she answer and turned back to her postion. I don't know what is she thinking, can anyone help? Lonesomeself? what do u mean how it go?
lol thas messed up callin' Trong out like that.. -lol she's been dressin' up so nice.. so now you gotta dress better than her.. roll up with some $500 dollar jeans n $1,000 dollar shirt.. then tap her on the shoulder and say.. excuse miss.. can you come.. hang with me.. possibly, can I take you out, to-night...
yah lol i'll do that ecko. i'll probily get a slap from her or soemthing and ruin all my chances of even going out with her, plus friendship would be akward too lol my friends will probilly be thinking "what are u doing?" or she might laugh and think i'm funny. does anyone agree on what ecko said? or is he just jokeing around cuz i might do that.
yah but i'm not gonna make myself regret anything. i believe that if u find a person u really like u need to do all u can to get her. i just don't know what to do exactly to make things right. (less akward) yes this opportunity i missed, but i believe that that is more coming up. i can sense it. i just need help preparing for it.
of course not everyone could pull it off.. I think that you're stuck on the whole notion of it being awkward and you getting rejected. since she's been dressing up nice.. give her some compliments.. say Gee you're looking very lovely.. I'd sure like to take you out to dinner.. in a jokingly manner.. see if she smiles and if you can't pull it off then.. then your chances will be reduced to 5-10%...
that is messed up. anyway, that compliment thing ecko mentioned is a pretty good idea. think of it this way. see how you're afraid of it being awkward between you and her? she probably feels the same way. i know that if something wierd happens, a girl would try to ignore it. so don't worry about it. if things do get awkward, just act normal like nothing happened. I asked a girl out recently and she likes me, but she knows this guy longer so she turned me down. I understood, after being turned down she told me she doesn't want our friendship to end. so now it's kind of normal between two of us. so I say, ask her out. if you really do like her, then be creative. Suggestion on what to do: Act casual, loosen up the tension. So don't think anything of it about the turning back in class during a movie thing. Maybe she didn't want to get in trouble or was fascinated by the movie. Don't listen to what ecko said, lol i'm positive he was joking.
Usually when a girl dresses up she wants attention. Give her some attention with a compliment and then see how that goes. If she reacts well then just ask her out already. Valentines is a special day but then again this will be ur first date with her so its much better if it wasn't on valentines because u guys don't really have a connection. For ur first date go get a drink or hang out somewhere. Where u guys can really talk and get to know eachother on a more personal lvl. Another advice is to not ask her why shes being the way she is. If u ask her out and she agrees forget how she acted be4 it just means she wanted ur attention and she acted that way to get it. Good Luck ^_^
lol i c well today is chinese new years and she text me twice saying happy new years, but i didn't know what to text back. Does anyone know if vietnamese people celebrate chinese new years????? maybe i'll ask her out thiis week someday to have a drink or something. Should i buy, or no?
or was it... ; this is why you much to learn on fishing in the sea... this girl viet?? did you not read what happend to that one guy.. -rolleyes... -lol
got to say thats a good answer, at times just got to play it by ear and not let yourself get all caught up into it, because it can be used against you later on, sometimes its hard to let go of someone you have feelings for but they time says heals all wounds. Not always true because can end up with regrets, and that hurts. As the dude said here, if the girl doesn't want to talk about it or lay the cards on the table and say look here is the deal, then i have to say that its not going to be fair to you, because we all deserve that chance to sit down and talk about the issues and not get beat up behind it. There someone else out there man, so just do what it do, she was just a test, the real one will be showing up soon enough, just be yourself and don't mess it up -cool
