Cheatin, Cheated

For all the people who have been cheated on...how do you feel??..did you forgive and forget??

For all the people who are cheating...how you all feel???...fun...gulity??

[Truthful answers...love hurts]

 

how about thankful that you found out before a messy divorce?

and how about payback is good!

hehe ...

 

honestly I did forgive

more of, a ex of mine cheated on me, and then ended up leaving me for the other girl
there was some tension between us for a while
but i'm one of those friends before becoming lovers
and we ended up becoming close friends again (after a bit of time apart)

now he takes care of me alot (as friends)
partially probebly because he feels guilty
and mostly because he really truely cares

he once told me "we are no longer lovers, but we can never go back to being friends, we will always be stuck somewhere in the middle"
and i agree, i always watch over him, want him to make the best decisions, and treat his gf really nice (even though i dont like her) because i know that me liking her really matters to him

 

hmm.. i like it how two ex-lovers become friends after. thats much better i find..

 

she cheated on me with my best friend, so i cheated at her with her best friend...
and i didn't felt any bad while doint it.

 

um, how do the best friends feel now

dont they feel bad that they did something so evil to there friend?

 

its what people do that defines who they are.

its what we do that defines who we are.

 

true...gosh...cheatin' with ur gf best friend...nice..How do you define cheating?....not just sex...but what do you consider cheating?

 

Not a forgiving person. In exchange, I will totally sever the previous relationship before stepping into a new one (no cheating for me, I hate lies) -- not very multitasking in that aspect.

 

i have been cheated.... just broke up with the guy.... but i dun mind talking to him after... just won't date him anymore... is that considered as forgive n forget??

 

I personally do not tolerate cheating at all; for me it kills all the trust that is needed in a relationship

 

i believe that is considered forgiveness
whether you just talk or date him now, is more considered an evaluation of your future relationship with this person

 

i guess 2nd chances are worth taking...making a friend..then losing a friend...i would too...unless he was really ridiculous

 

he cheated me, so i cheated him. i think that's fair trade

 

fair trade? haha they are justa s bad as each other

 

Not sure if this is really considered cheating but I was with this guy then we stopped talking and after awhile I found out he has a new GF. I believe in second chances but I think it would depend on how the other person was.

 

u still like him. LOL

 

you may be able to forgive but I believe u won't ever forget it...it will always be in the back of your mind...one way or another...

 

Cheated???
Cheating???

I guess there is no such things in luv.
Luv is a game. Once u play the game, u must know n obey the rules.
There are no losers or winners. ONLY a broken heart 2 mend 4 the losers

 

But if you are comparing "love" or even "relationship" to a game, how can there not be winners or losers? And how can one NOT cheat to win? It's like one of those online games, some people have multiple instances going on their computer, so their level or power or EXP or whatever is really high -- they feel good about themselves for KNOWING how to cheat while others ("SUCKERS") slowly accumulate their points. But once they were found out about cheating they are forever enlisted in the hall of shame -- Rarely people respect cheaters.

To me, it's no forgive and forget. As simple as that -- cheaters cheat because it's in their nature, I never believe in rehabilitation, how one can change blah blah. Given half a chance, I totally won't allow myself to sink THAT low to be treated like a door mat.