Why am I so shy and useless?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by wolf, Sep 25, 2006.

  1. see.. he confused already..

    and that wouldn't change even if dann was there.. in place of you... -lol


    ahhaha yall got him confused.. he don even know what to do anymore...
     
  2. omg... you serious you read it? i read it and im like... this is pure bull lol

    look. ill tell you what i do. i am polite towards girls. i dont shove sandwiches in their hands and walk away.

    ill ask them if they want the food or not. dont be going and guessing. if you dont know, you ask. be nice, but not too nice to the point where shes like... this guy is obsessive... be polite, and courteous.

    think, if you were a girl, how would you like to be treated? like trash? no.. be confident, and not whiny like some guys..

    it works for me. but hey, thats just me.

    edit: yo ecko, same goes to you man hahahaha but the difference is, i dont need to go there to get ass, i got all the asses i need here lol
     
  3. you keep thinkin' that young buck...

    Edit: only diff is.. I get legal fem asses.. while you gettin' dudes straight out the pen...
     
  4. ya ok lol wake up man, that aint gonna happen lol

    ok ok youre right. i wont argue... you getting your legal fem asses alright....... all them legal granny fem asses hahahahahhaha lol jsk jsk
     
  5. yo we kno you ain't shy.. but damn useless wit dem comebacks..
     
  6. seizai

    seizai Member

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    B a man and go
     
  7. phistyle

    phistyle Member

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    man up and show her who's boss... be confident and make some real moves.... in my opinion I believe girls like guys with confidence but not cocky and I learned that girls don't like being made fun of ....especially in public and another note.... don't be an ass ...
     
  8. kutkm2628

    kutkm2628 Active Member

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    Are u a man with a capital DICK???

    Where r ur balls???

    B brave dude.
     
  9. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    yea. man up/

    I say wear a trench coat with her next time. then unzip u fly underneath and have it hangin.

    And when she is lookin flash her and pretend it was an accident.
     
  10. dong_phuong12345

    dong_phuong12345 New Member

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    hehe so interesting hhehe, wooing gals using marketing techniques (" ,)
     
  11. wolf

    wolf Well-Known Member

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    So it seems she is avoiding me now. Just last week she comes and sits beside me in class as usual and then the next day when we have break she follows me. I thought it was kind of weird today when she was avoiding me. I come and sit in my usual seat and then this other girl comes and sits on her usual seat but there is an empty seat on my left side. Anyways I didn't see her show up to class so I talk to the girl beside me then I think she showed up to class and I think she saw me and then she went to go sit somewhere in the back at the other side of the room. I go on msn and I see her on msn but she doesn't say anything to me. After class is done I leave class but I walk slower then usual hoping she would say something to me but I don't see her. I don't know what I could have done to trigger this effect. Like she msg me on msn like 2-3 times last week now she is avoiding me :(.
     
  12. ^ one thing: you didnt say to the other girl that the seat was taken. it makes the girl think you are interested in someone else.

    second thing: people dont spend 24h on msn. i leave my msn status as online, but im never at the computer.

    third thing: she might have been absent on that day.

    dude... step on the gas pedal a bit.. im sure she feels like you're stepping on the brake pedal, and most girls dont like it if they have to chase after a dude.
     
  13. wolf

    wolf Well-Known Member

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    I forgot to mention this but me and her have laptops so she was on her computer during class on msn not at home. This is during class time. Oh believe me, I don't think she thinks I'm interested in that other girl lol. Not to sound rude or anything and I try to say this in a nice way but that other girl is just not my type (use your imagination). I'm alittle confused about what you said about her being absent. This happened today and she was in class, my friend saw her.
     
  14. DC003

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    David De'angelo's method doesn't work nowadays because of its notority...furthur more...you are not entering a night club in Southbeath nor LA. You have to keep in mind you're not trying to pick up some chick in a bar/club setting.

    Every man has a different way in approach the craft. You can't use someone else's points and try to fake it as your own. You have to take ideas and come up with your own stuff.

    It seems like some people here needs to attend some seminars...I haven't attended any but one of my friends have. It has helped him greatly...not just with women...but his whole outlook in life. Everyone has different approaches cause everyone's different.

    Wolf...you need help but I don't think this forum's the appropriate place to help you.
     
  15. DC003

    DC003 Active Member

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    Hold your nerves...you just made your "target girl" jealous. Instead of panicing and running for the hills, you can use this to your advantage.
     
  16. dim8sum

    dim8sum ♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪....

    ^ no need to double post...

    If shes now avoiding you, no need to drag it on, she prob no longer interested, look for someone else
     
  17. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member


    wtf. he ain't taking advise.!!!
     
  18. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    she probably didn;t want to get a sandwivh thrown at her. LOL

    Use yr imagination. ROFLMAO
     
  19. wolf

    wolf Well-Known Member

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    nah she ain't jealous. I saw her today in the computer lab room. Didn't see her at first then when I came back from the washroom I noticed some girl that looked like her then after I sat down at the back where I was sitting I realized it was her. She didn't even look at me or anything or say anything when I came back from the washroom. So later on when I was still in the computer lab I msg her on msn and I was like aren't u suppose to be in class and etc. Then I said I didn't see her in the computer room then she said she didn't see me either. Wtf she was sitting like 2 tables away from the door and facing the door. Then I said I didn't see her in class and she was like " I came in late" and I just left it at that. She didn't seem like she wanted to talk on msn. Later her friend this girl came to the computer lab and she and her friend left, she didn't even look at the back and say bye or anything. I also asked my friend what happened when I left class and she was like the girl was taking her time to pack and stuff and she said she was really taking her time. This also makes me remember last friday when the girl msg me on msn and asked me something. I told her I did really bad in one of my classes midterm and she sounded like she wanted me to drop the course and switch my major lol. So I guess this is it. I tried to ease off of her last week but I guess its too late now.

    Now I'm wondering what I should do tmr. I have two classes with her and we have a break in between. I'm thinking if she comes to class and sits beside me then I say hi etc... then after class is done I just say bye and leave her alone. If she doesn't come and sit beside me then just leave class without saying anything.
     
  20. phistyle

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    you really need to step on the gas pedal...this is really dragging on and the longer you take, the more uninterested she will get (if she was interested in the first place).. are you going to wait til another guy comes and scoop her up? then what you are going to do then? make your move or find somebody else...just ask her to a movie or go get some coffee...at least if you ask her out then you can really find out if she likes you or not instead of wasting all this time just to find out that she don't like you... if she likes you then afterwards you guys can at least make some progress...the way things are going, it's not really any progress and if you ask her out and she refuses then that's a good sign that she's probably not interested so MOVE ON!