How can you flirt with someone who is oblivious...?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Shini_D, Mar 2, 2007.

  1. saskuro

    saskuro Active Member

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    Most guys would decide whether they would date or go out with you once they met you, and if they don't feel a little bit awkward then they probably just want to be friends.
     
  2. onelove

    onelove Well-Known Member

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    lol..is he realli dense? or kinda senses it but doesn't know if u realli do like him or he's just imaginin it`` i rckn u should just tell him..sometimes there are boys whom are kinda shy and unsure``

    love`
    mon
     
  3. kutkm2628

    kutkm2628 Active Member

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    Gurls nowadays should be more aggresive in luv.

    It's the 21st century
     
  4. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    well, I have until tomorrow to actually do anything, or my friend will kick my ass, she said she will and I know she has the capability to do so, lol.
    And plus some guy at work said if I don't do anything then I have to date him.
    I'm like WOAHHH.........
    but I think I have an idea how I'll do it, just if the perfect opportunity comes is a different story...
     
  5. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    not even...im against violence hahahahahaah

    well wats ur plan?? share wit uz
     
  6. TreSamurai82

    TreSamurai82 Active Member

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    I hope all works out for you, just got to take that chance, else there will be regrets, if you ever heard Jay Z's song Regrets, you know what i mean. Just got to be creative and imagitive, no point in not doing it especially when you know how you feel. Just take a deep breath, count to 10 and then make the move. I think the guy likes you just doesn't know what to do or how to say it. I think you can tell if you just gaze into his eyes, then you will know for sure. Its no mystery, everything you need to know is in his eyes... just got to know what to look for >.<
     
  7. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    YAY go for it
    Don't wait for the perfect opportunity, you have to make it yourself. Anyways when i'm nervous about something i always find closing your eyes and imagining yourself doing it in your head first makes it easier. So just imagine you going up to him and doing what you do, make sure in your mind you make a real vivid image and also have the senses there too. so like how you would feel, touch, smell etc.
    I'm sure everything will work out for you heh

    make sure you come back and update, we'll be waiting here for some good news

    Good luck ;)
     
  8. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    haha, hmm.....my plan....dnt wna jinx it yet lol. when the outcomes happen, i will let PA ppl know. After all, you guys all give me so much support! Kyaa, love you guys to bits!
     
  9. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    ya..so it's like our plan but u're making hte moves lol =p i keed i keeed ;)
     
  10. sansan_55

    sansan_55 Member

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    Your in college right? How old are you? 13, 14, 15? Your too young to date. Ask your parents first.
     
  11. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    College in London means people are 17 -19 years old hun!
    13, 14, 15, HAH! Those days I spent playing footy with the guys, not trying to catch their interest, lol.
    18 years old now, big girl, according to London, we legal to do ANYTHING now, lol.

    Well, plan failed, not because he said no, but the fact that he wasn't even in college today just turned out to be pretty annoying. He had lessons in the morning only, I had lessons in the afternoon, so no chance.....AH. Was actually confident in myself today....damn.....

    Yes kdotc-hunii, it's a combination of PA ideas, making it OUR plan, just I'm the one test driving it, lol.
    But still won't tell till I've tested it out. I'll give you guys a good evaluation, lol, what to do, or what not to do. haha!
     
  12. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    u failed me shini =( lol......now u have to sing us a song =)
     
  13. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    haha, i got sunday, and thats the final day for decision, lol.
    I will give a good evaluation, this is like my second chance, so I better make the best of it. lol.
     
  14. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    noo technically sunday is the start of the week lol