I really need some advice on this problem I have. So there's this girl I really like at school. And I'm pretty sure she likes me too because I hear from my friends that she always talks about me when I'm not around. But that was before- when everything was perfect. When a school dance came up, I really wanted to ask her to the dance, but I didn't because I was sort of uncertain what she would say. >.< (don't laugh, -noclue you know you'd do the same thing) So as time passes, I sort of see her flirting with other guys in my class and I try to ignore it. And now she doesn't really even talk to me anymore. When i see her in the hallways, I still say hi and sometimes she just smiles at me. And when I'm with a group of friends, she just greets all my friends first and then says hi to me last in a soft voice. But today as we tried to enter class in a crowded hallway, I swore she tried to get really close to me, but I just stood there because I was confused. So at the beginning and end of each day when I have class with her, it feels awkward in class, especially when she's flirting with someone else... I really don't know what to do...-unsure
shes messin with you to get bak at you. keep talking to get. try to make her laugh. try not to feel awkward. If you have to, dig up info from your friends about her. lol
well mayb she sees that ur not doing anything, so shes gotta find sum1 else? just let her know ur interested and see wat she does then... u could always make her make the first move =P
I have to agree that to a point the girl is playing with you, but she likes you man, and thats why she is playing, she knows it a way for you to get to notice her. You can't be to shy on this, just be yourself and start talking with her, as reno said, let the girl know that you are interested. Don't wait to long, or you going to have regrets, and you'll be thinking about the what ifs instead of what are the two of you going to do take a chance alright?
reno said it man.. you lost because you were a statue. you didnt do anything and she doesnt like it. if you want things to move up a notch, its not gonna suddenly happen if you stand there while she hits on you. shes not suppsed to be the one asking you out, YOU ARE. you say youre confused, thats the first thing wrong. you gotta be confident, thats what women like. you have to take INITIATIVE. now go back to school, get that girl back by playing at her own game. listen you dont do this soon, you WILL lose her. ask her out and dont be timid about it or it will not work. you got nothing to lose so go for it full speed. but what im saying is, do NOT STALL. you see her, you play her. dont wait.
That is a attention whore. I should know cause I am a girlo. Seriously have you ever considered counseling cause she did touch your pee pee. Maybe even your pee pee hole.
Dude, just ask her. Worst thing that could happen? She says no. Its not the end of the world.. if she says no.
i agree with dann, you got to be confident, so step up to the plate and hit it out of the park -noclue
it could have just been a crush for her crushes come and go i know i've had this happen to me before, as in me being the girl i liked this guy (i had just met), it was just a crush i would flirt with him for a bit then i got over my crush about a month later he started chasing me (i found it rather annoying since i didn't like him) crushes come and go they aren't the same as really likeing a person so although you might like her, she might have just had a crush on you
Be a man and talk to her. There's not point thinking about the what if's and making things complicated. If you like her, talk to her.
i know! be a man and approach her. you know what they say, if you try, you have 50-50 chance of success. if you don't, you have 0 chance of success.
Yo, join in the fun (don't worry about the risk and the inevitable possible fallout), if you are still worried about what to do, download some jdorama movies and learn, practise and execute !
she's trying to mess with your mind. why dont you try to flirt with some other girls and see how she reacts?
i think you should take some action. she might be shy around you because she doesnt know how you feel about her. and flirting with guys.. i guess she's trying to get your attention.
lol.. its not complicated at all.. She is just trying to get your attention. Either you do sth abt it.. or move on, whats the complication?
what she's doing is either trying to get u to stop liking her, or actually do something about it! if u felt that she had feelings for u, then u were stupid for not asking her to the dance. u shud start talking to her and get closer with her... flirting or whatever. show her u like her =p
