Need Advice: Friend may be in trouble

I was with my friend the other day, and his GF came to pick us up. I talked to her and she asked me about people she knew from my school. We talked a bit about those people and she told me to say hi to one of them. Today I talk to that person and say that so-and-so says hi.

"How do you know her?" he asks
"shes going out with my friend" i say
"How long have they been going out?"
"about a month or so I think"
"Really? My roommate at this youth activism meeting slept with her about 2 weeks ago" he says

So, what should I do? Should I tell my friend that he is being cheated on? I'm afraid that he will become defensive and get mad at me. I'm not saying its ok to cheat, but what he doesnt know wont hurt him right? Any advice appreciated.

 

well you have to make sure that she did in fact sleep with another person first. Not saying your friend is a liar but with these kinds of things you really should get the facts correct first.

But lets say it is true, i think maybe you should tell your friend about it, because it's better to let him know early than later, where things may become worst. But yeah i would hate to be in your position.

 

ya tlk to the girl first...wat a hoe if she did.

 

No need to talk to her.

Try to find out first hand

If she stops u then say "so and so said u easy"

 

^ then give her my name and number and ill see how easy she is ahhhaha jks...if a girl fuked a guy and goin with a good buddy of mine then that girl will have a really hard time

 

hah^^ then she'll tell her bf about you and you'll get a pair of new sunnies...black eyes lolz

 

Tell your friend man, come on

 

If you r convinced of what your roomate said to you is true, tell your friend now.

 

d*mn thats messed up, and its a tough spot, you got to verify the facst first before bringing it to your friend, it might be hard to swallow, but the guy will understand that you are just watching out for him and that you got his back

 

Well ask the girl first i suppose or ask the guys room mate. Say to him 'errmm i heard this rumor about you being in bed with so-and-so' and try and be discrete. When you have found out and its true then tell your friend straight. If his a good mate he would understand if he aint he would lash out at you. But try your best not to accuse anyone until you have solid proof.

 

dont go to the gf
go to the guy who she slept with and find out more from him

 

hahaaaha

 

yea. go to the guy and tell him the girl got HIV or AIDS.

then see if he goes to a doctor to check out his condition. If he got zits, thern tell him it is a syntom of AIDS.

LOL

 

tell your friend what you heard and leave it as is

 

Definately investigate further before telling the GF or your friend.

 

what?
did i say something incorrect?

the girl is obviously not going to admit it
and the guy, he might be oblivious to stuff, so he might spill everything given the chance to brag

 

Not all guys brag if it is true. He might brag so he can say he got laid which might be a lie.

 

that's pretty serious man, start collecting the facts man cause the sooner you collect the facts, the faster your buddy knows and the faster he'll be rid of her if she really is two-timing him or she's just that kind of a girl....and if she is your buddy is better off without her.

 

tell your friend what you heard form the other friend so then your friend can ask the gf and if the gf "tells' the ruth then i guess she is truthful =] but then again.. if she really did, and she was hiding it from him then she isnt.. x_x

 

I say tell ur friend.

Maybe he will get u in on an orgy ROFLMAO

Just kidding.