Age gap - what are your views on this?

well wot i think is... its kinda ok if a girl who's 19 dating a 30 somethig man... well.. the guy has to be mentally and emotionally mature... how can such a young guy understnad an older women who even has a kid with her?!?!
i think thats just wrong... cos women still matures earlier than men
older man + younger women (not too young)= ok
older woman + younger man (really young man) = just wrong

 

jeez..I am 25 and my wife is 30..of course we have a lot of problems like she thinks i am not mature enough and others but we still doing well..sometimes we have arguments and fights but later on,we are ok again...once my wife and i headed for divorce but now everything is fine..all they need is love,understanding,support and courage..then everything will work out well.

 

Age gap is not a problem if u really LOVE him/her but depend what u prefer urself,i prefer younger cos i look more younger than those gal same age as me T_T pity me........................

 

I think the guy should be older then the girl by a Maximum of 5 years. If its older then it's just weird

 

Age doesn't matter to me as much as it matters to my wife. She thinks a man 7 years older is right for her which is why she married me.

 

7 years? Wow, that's almost a decade!

 

well i used to think that older men are better than younger but now i'm not sure anymore.

 

I think it's a bit weird. But if they really love each other, who are we to judge.

 

lol yo... you seriously gotta stop actin' so pathetic n holla at them ladies spit some game about yourself in that mackin thread.. know what i mean??

 

^ meant for the post above ecko's

when a partner is 17 and the other is 27, it is considered pedophilia.

in that case, we judge how ignorant the younger is, and how disgusting the older is.

 

age gap wat the hell does it matter

 

i got a friend married a guy who is 10years older than her.

 

it matters cuz it determines whether youre a pedo or not.

i read somewhere that from age 18-21, youre allowed to date people ages 14-17.

but if youre older than 21, and you date people ages 14-17, youre a pedo.

then this 27 y.o. dude who was going out with a 17 y.o. girl is pedo! :O

 

age difference doesnt matter. all that matters is that you guys love each other.

 

^ yea ok. an 80 y.o. man and a 22 girl.. you tell me lol

what about a 20 y.o. guy and a 14 y.o. girl?

these are all true cases.

 

i will say u ROCKz 80yo old guy.... ^_^ 20 n 14 i think is okay,but mayb need more patient cos 14yo gals is very "hard to predict"-noclue

 

you dont get the point.... its pedophilia.. do you know what that means???

 

haha.. im sure they know what it means. But thats only if one of them is a kid right?

If say a 25 yr old woman go out with a 35 yr old man... then does the age gap still matter?

I think it matters only when either party is too young or immature to give the relationship a serious thought. If both are adults than what's the issue? As long as they like being together then I think its perfectly fine.

 

yea.. if one of them is a kid... but what about hugh hefner and his 25 yo gf? that he got pregnant? at 80... DAYUM

 

woaaah! does sound shoking at first just lookin at the difference. but its all about love really as long as u do love that person that much nothing else matters.