Re: Abortion... what would you do? even if getting preganent was unintentional, going for an abortion is the worst choice to solve the problem. giving birth to it and then having someone adapt it is not a bad idea. but being able have ur guy take resonsiblity and you could "highly possible live a life where you have food, shelter, clothing" - then what more can you hope for? you can still go for your dreams
Re: Abortion... what would you do? I think it wrong to have sex with a guy other than your husband, and I mean that girls must not do sex with any guy until they marry.... In our religion girls can't go out with guys alone, we don't have any contact with them until they propose to us.... I think is a good way because such problems are unique to our society.
Re: Abortion... what would you do? I dont think abortion is the answer. 2 consenting persons having sex should know the consequence of what they're doing. If they dont want to have a baby, dont have sex, or use protection. Aborting their baby is wrong. They may consider putting the baby for adoption, or asking their parents for financial support.
Re: Abortion... what would you do? yea but what if the protection didn't work... what if the person was raped... what if their parents are gone and they have no financial support... Don't have sex... yea thas gonna help... forever hold off and be deprived of your natural human desires... Abort if you must... don't have the child and not be able to raise it properly... or even worst let someone else who may not be fit to raise your child... and end up sexually abusing them...
Re: Abortion... what would you do? Ahhh I totally agree with you Ecko. No protection is 100% effective. As for abstinence... well, this may sound kind of cheesy but when two people are in love, sex is almost inevitable. So what if they wanted to have sex, but their birth control method didn't work? Why should they be expected to keep the baby? And yeah, adoption is NOT all that great. You never know what kinds of people end up raising your kid.
Hm, I have a feeling (and secretly, hope) that I will never have to deal with a situation like this. However, I am quite certain I will have the fetus removed, get an abortion whatever. Giving birth is too much of a burden to the female body -- and I don't prepare to make this sacarfice for anyone, probably ever. I guess my course of action will still be: safe sex, when accident happens, abortion. It's MY body, afterall.
i'm against the abortion but i think everyone are free to choose what they think it's the best...no one should tell them what they have to do because each one hold his own life....and make ur own choice is what make ppl different from each one... I remember when my friend aborted and what i ask her: " why don't u just wait to give the birth and abandon the baby..." u khnow what was her answer?!! she said that this is a part of her and if she give the birth she will be always worry about this little human that born from her..and ppl never khnow if the family who will adopt the child will be a good or a bad family ..that's why she don't want to add another poor child in this earth...and when u heard something like that it make u wonder about the life..and this is true that u never khnow what is what... that's why no one should be blame about that..ppl don't choose abortion because they want..just that they can't keep the baby for some reason
Abortion...hell no. Recall back many cited not ready, unprepared as the reason for abortion but to me when the times come, you'll be ready. Positive thinking.
in the end the girl makes the final decision so u tell her ur imput n wait for her decision...... if she decides not to abort.....man up n take care of ur kid......shouldnt f**k if u cant handle the responciblities that come with it..... (my ex had an abortion i wanted to keep it......guy doesnt make the decisions n if it matters i was 19)
well you could always opt for adoption as hard as that is. it really depends on the situation and such. i've had a friend that had an abortion because there just was no way. not because they were young, just because they were at a point in their life where it was just impossible and she was so heartbroken about it. when ppl call her a "baby killer" i can only imagine how much it must be for her to swallow it down.
Pregnant from ur bf if both got work so i dont think its hard to do it together. And am against abortion ur should protect it when ur on sex when ur have time that ur doesnt want a baby. And i dont think adoption works on me cos giving the baby to someone else since ur have got thought the time when ur got pregnant and dont forget ur have give this baby a birth. So if ur doesnt want a kid protect when ur have sex. But if ur got raped then its differents story.
