Traditional Men to Non Traditional Men?...Which would you prefer?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by wongie, Apr 4, 2007.

  1. wysandman

    wysandman Well-Known Member

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    as a guy , i think we should pay for the first few dates then after that the couple sould take turns.
    because if you pay for all her stuuf she will be spoiled and always expect you to pay.
     
  2. vinnya

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    To me it really depends on how much i dig the chick. If she is worth it, hell yeah. If not, i'll probably still do it just for the hell of it. Just cuz its a guy thing and its just a credit card. :p Females of course should invest money on cosmetics....well not too much make-up....its just plain nasty. Nice perfume, cloths, accessories...etc. If ur date looks bad, it also reflects to the other person.
     
  3. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    See...this guy understands us :p
     
  4. vinnya

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    THAT IS SAD....If you lived in Cali, i'll just take u out for the hell of it....too bad ur in london
     
  5. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    i refuse to let a girl pay for food on a date, i always front the cash when it comes to meals.. although there was a case where this one chick made such a fuss about wanting to pay for the stuff that i let her and then slipped a twenty into her purse when she wasnt looking.. hahaha i dunno if that makes me traditional or what, not that i care; its just how i roll.
     
  6. vinnya

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    Thats cuz i've got 3 sisters
     
  7. MissCheekS

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    Haha...yeah...luv guys with sisters... they seem to understand us better... ^^
    They like "get behind the scenes" and knows what we have to go through... haha does that sound dramatic?
     
  8. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    Aren't you afraid to come across as a cheap ass for a Chinese/Asian guy? ;)
    (I suppose you're Asian) Besides, you still have no guarantee that the girl will stay with you after a couple of dates? What if she dumps you after 2 years, after you've paid loads of dinners for her?
     
  9. vinnya

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    just wondering, what if u paid the bill and the chick slipped the cost of the meal back in ur pockets. Just cuz it happened to me.
     
  10. lol hwhah?? whos the mean one now... yo we really don't need to spend any money when we're in the back of my car.. ;) hihhihihi...


    yea I'm with you on that.. lol..

    but I let 'em show how independent they are.. -lol

    if they pay for their ticket.. then I'll buy the snacks.. -cool2

    seriously tho.. doesn't it piss you off if the girl is just sitting there n always expecting you to pay for everything??

    hell I'll pay if she's nice about it... or maybe when she smiles at you and your hands just automatically reach for the wallet.. there's no stopping that.. -lol
     
  11. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    Agreed.
     
  12. vinnya

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    Dunno about the behind the scenes thingy, but i've moved to the basement to get away from them
     
  13. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    never had a girl put her hands in my back pockets before.. just my front pockets, and at the time money was the last thing on my mind... sooo i dunno :D
     
  14. yea hella dramatic at that... -lol

    but then I ate the food too righ??


    but really tho.. I'll pay if the food was good.. and it was worth it... -lol.. if it's crap then you're like... damn I gotta pay for this!!??
     
  15. vinnya

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    don't get me wrong those chicks who just expects guys to do everything are also the ones who complain about not being equal. Just wanna punch them in the face. As a dude, we pamper females just for one reason.
     
  16. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Well... my dates are usually like... He pays for dinner and i for example pay for the cinema ticket... fair enough right?
     
  17. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Hmmm....dont say that when theres a girl around -unsure
     
  18. vinnya

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    yeah i kinda realized that when i hit "enter" just wanna apologized to anyone who got offended.
     
  19. lol what girl?? all dudes here... -lol

    yo whos got money?? take all of us on here out on a date... :D -lol
     
  20. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    =( ECKOOO!!!!! Why u insulting me and making fun of me all the time!

    vinnya... not offended haha but just...haha dont wanna know whats on guys mind when they go on dates :p