Hey, im all alone in sydney... no friends... nothing to do... cant go shopping everyday so just chilling here haha... but lets stay on topic lar... we killing the thread
hmm your like one of those cute lil puppies that everyone wants to kick around aren't you!!?? marriage is only important if the girls rich... -lol
lol.. but the ONLY person to even mention the word marriage or anything related in the 2nd page is Ecko... I realise most ppl wanna get married for one reason or another. But consider: If suppose a couple does not get married, lives together, have children, and dies like everyone else. Will it make a difference? Or if people switch a few spouses throughout their life, isnt that same as marrying and re-marrying? So, I tend to see marriage as just a formality. Or is it not? Ecko: you wanna live off women?
It's also a psychological attachment to your companion. But I agree, if the couple is really in love with each other, then marriage is not necessarily the best thing to go through. Most guys are cool with it; it's mainly the women folk who push guys to get married.
i wanna get married i wanna have kids i wouldn't want to build a family with someone who hasn't set a life commitment to me i dont think love dies i think love does change though it loses a lot of that, lovely duvy i have to spend 24/7 being beside you but you build that trust, that they will never leave you, that they know everything about you and will always be there for you, that something HUGE (almost your whole life)would be missing if they were gone
lol exactly!! thank you very much... I'm always on topic... -innocent... actually marriage is just a contract... I've seen people together for years n years without getting married.. but although it is a chance for you to throw a big party and let the other family members know how well you're doing... not just any woman... a rich one... or perhaps rich women... -lol... I'm not gonna answer this cuz this is more for the Traditional, Nontraditional thread...
It's complicated to me, I think marriage is a promise that should not have expiry date -- I don't believe in divorces, specially since I don't mind NOT getting married in the first place. However, if I ever contemplate getting married, I will probably end up worrying day and night whether one day I will change or he will change -- that our love is not what it used to be when the promise is made. At which point, I would rather let him go and have his happiness instead of using the formality of marriage to tie him down and be miserable collectively. Of course, there's the chance that I may be the one who found a new person. And that only make it more painful -- how can I betray a promise THAT easily? As a result, I would rather NOT have the commitment in the first place -- then when we separate, it's not bound by some superficial formality that witness our short-sightedness in the past.
o.. u sound so deeply in love... haha.. so sweet Yea.. i agree that its kinda complicated. Hmm.. maybe when the time comes it will all be clearer
if you marry you have attachments and responsabilities with the other party, and that´s a good thing... i mean if your girlfriend suddenly got pregnant you can ditch her or ask her to abort (not a nice thing to do), in marriage things are a little more safe... anyway i want to marry... i don´t want to be those old grumpy hermits that age alone XD
