Girl i like has a bf, what to do?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by PsychoAssasin, Apr 16, 2007.

  1. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    this topic again?
     
  2. koogepanini

    koogepanini Well-Known Member

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    "ive asked her out a few times but usually smth comes up"

    im pretty sure this girl knows that u like her and if there's still no reaction...maybe...just maybe...

    she's just not into you.

    k no offense - just a thought. or ever thought of the fact that she might actually like the relationship she's in right now...and just cuz you like her in a way that you've never liked another girl doesn't mean that you have to make her ur gf.
     
  3. Candyshots

    Candyshots Well-Known Member

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    First and foremost you can never separate a couple that are in love. But according to your words, it sounds like her relationship to her boyfriend isn’t that good.
    Second: you shouldn’t miss the chance to tell the one you love about your feelings. The worse thing that may happen is that she’ll reject you. But then at least you’ll know the answer and may go on without wonderings.

    Good luck!
     
  4. sikfonhupla

    sikfonhupla Well-Known Member

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    BE A HOMEWRECKER!!! it's not like she didn't do the damage already by going out with u or maybe giving u possible hints that she may like u too.
     
  5. shadow85

    shadow85 Well-Known Member

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    I think you can still be friends with her. I think being friends with her would be better than not even knowing her. And plus, yea you want to be with her but you should force them apart. Just play the friend game and with some luck, it will all work out. =)
     
  6. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    if i found out u did that to my girl i would kick ur @ss lol...serioulsy tho
     
  7. PsychoAssasin

    PsychoAssasin Well-Known Member

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    Thing is i just cant see her belonging to someone else since its not like theyre married or going to as far as i know. I mean, say if i met her a few months later and say by then shed broken up with him, i can ask her out no problem. But just because i met her at the wrong time its like i cant do anything anymore and never can.

    Its quite possible shes not, but the times she had to cancel, she actually had legitimate reasons. I went top pick her up last time, and her mom was crying and she needed to stay. and i dont think that was an elaborate plan to make me go away lol i actually saw it.

    Thats kinda what im thinking i guess
     
  8. well with that said... you better go holla at her!!

    lol yea like don't go round slashing her tires n what not n trying to be a hero..


    oh n maybe you should listen to that Avril Lavigne song for motivation... cept change it to boyfriend... -lol
     
  9. Xiah

    Xiah Well-Known Member

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    just wait ; nothing truely lasts forever
    unless they get married or something...and even then you never know
    and waiting would be best because then you can think clearly and ask yourself if you really like her that much
     
  10. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    seriously why opt for a girl that's already in a relationship when there are so many other girls you could go for that are single. I understand you like this girl a lot but you should have moved on as soon as you found out she had a bf. You wouldn't really like another guy to come in and hurt you by wrecking your relationship would you?
     
  11. tijit328

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    Interesting post. In my opinion, if you think you are a better offer than her bf, then go for it. If you are gonna camp for the rabbit "so du dai twu", then nothing will happen. Worst scenario is that she will have a bad impression of you. It's not a big deal. Beside there are so many fishes in the open ocean. If you are gonna go for her, i suggest that instead of concentrate on her fully, go out and have fun. Know as many girls as you can. Who know, you might fall for one of them. At the same time it's a good strategy to win her from her bf. Think of it this way. When she see all those fishes are going after one bait "YOU", I'm sure she would be curious and definitely will reach out to see how does this bait taste like. There is your 2 birds with one stone.
     
  12. ipepsi

    ipepsi Well-Known Member

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    if she can leave her man, well she'll leave you for someone else.
     
  13. guess thas one of the risks he's also gonna have to take...
     
  14. grundgetta

    grundgetta New Member

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    Usually if a girl is willing to meet up with you one on one then theres a good chance that she diggs you. So try doing that. And if she does and you're curious whether you have a chance or not, try telling her that you have someone you like but that girl has a bf. And you don't know what to do, and ask for her advice. If you guys talk on aim, I suggests you put something obivous on your profile to tempt her to ask you. like "Why can't you get out of my mind?!..." Then if she says to go for it, then tell her you like her. If not, then don't. Usually when a guy likes them, the girl knows. At least thats with me. Hope this helps :)
     
  15. DIESEL

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    lmao I'd kinda wanna go for it if I really liked someone. But I wouldn't be blunt and say.... dump your boyfriend and come hang with me instead. That's just... dry. Smooth into it you know?
     
  16. DO NOT F*CK AROUND WITH ANOTHER MAN'S WOMAN.

    dont listen to those who say to try.

    imagine the other dude is you. your girl, stolen from you. pretty damned embarrassing man...
     
  17. PsychoAssasin

    PsychoAssasin Well-Known Member

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    yes im quoting myself, if u read that dann,u would kow i wouldnt really mind. I hate how people regard theire gfs/bfs as a possesion and how theyre "stolen
     
  18. tvb_boy

    tvb_boy Active Member

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    This is exactly what I thought. I think it's ok to rob a guy's gf, as long as he is not your friend. If she choose you, then you win, if not, you can still be friend or even a good friend if you keep on showing her your cares....
    who knows if they will break up some time in the future on something else, then you have a chance again.
     
  19. tvb_boy

    tvb_boy Active Member

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    Come on Dann, if you can steal that girl so easily, that's mean they have a problem. If a girl loves you, no matter what happened, she should still love you and will turn down other guys.
     
  20. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    TELL HER TO DUMP THAT GUY AND GO OUT WITH YOU...

    THEN DUMP HER...

    DOUBLE WIN!!!


    *Don't take this seriously... I just felt like posting this...
    If you hate me now, go blow yourself... (If you can)...

    **Don't take the above post seriously either... I'm high...