There's this guy who lives next door to me. We started talking more this past week, and we hang out almost everyday. We always had this connection thing, and now I want to know if he's interested or not. So how do I do that? I tried this thing where you ask each other questions slowly leading up to that interested kind of question, but it leaded somewhere else. So what should I do?
I guess you better observe for a bit longer before you make a real move (in asking, I mean) otherwise it will only get awkward. Make sure he is at least kind of interested.
Interested in you? Is that what you mean? Maybe ask him out, somewhere casual, like the library or sth.. find some excuse. Dun make it sound like a date. If he is interested he would go out with you. If not, it wun be awkward anyway... and you will know where he stands.
and if it doesn.t... you should back out... -lol seriously... lives next door... can you say... psycho killer... or perhaps... PsychoAssassin... -lol
I would have to say talk to him, and if you have a chance when he is drinking something try ask if you can take sip and see what he does... Try doing things like a couple would do and see his response before saying "I like you"...
seriously tho... lives next door... that ish could be dangerous if something bad goes down... and hey... if you guys had this "connection" then why can't you tell if he's interested or not...
get some huge ass speakers...place it on ur windows facing his house..and blast that hump song..he should get the message.... ok..all humps aside..hell..he lives next door...just ask him....but what if he says now...can u handle it..i mean..hes right next door...then what if he says yes..hmph......
hmm i cant agree with that kher89. obviously she is interested in that guy. cant say shes desperate just cause she wants to find out if the guy is interested in her or not. ill say do something but not alot, ask to go out somewhere but dont make sound like your asking for a date just like xiaojia stated.
keep calm, what thingy r we refering to now? the normal dating? or a level higher, anyway, dont say u like him first... take it step at a time...do the normal talking stuff...ask her questions to find out what he does over the weekend? hangout with frens? gym? if his response is nothing, ask him whether would he wana catch a movie, a casual funny show, no horror, no mushy love story. if he say he's booked, find out whether he's goin to the mall with his frens....and whether u can join or not (since u got somthing to buy-find an excuse to go). keep us updated, and we will reply step by step. good luck for now, dont look desperate, but dont play hard to get la.
anyway, if he is interested in you or not, he is still in talking to you rite...perhaps he didnt thought of you two as a couple yet (or maybe he dont see it that way), just stay as friends, go slow and easy, let the course takes it way. because if u open your mouth first, and he got no response, i dont know whether you two can still be mutual frens. somemore u two are staying next to each other, dont know how u will face him then...sure will bump into each other ...wont be able to avoid for long.
