so i have this 'aquaintence' at my karate school, 2-ish years younger than me or so, just turned 14, and we've known each other since preschool years. Why is she 'aquaintence'? because she pisses me off D:< i'm being young and rash (stupid) but oh how it vexes me so.... she has ZERO individuality/uniqueness to her, why? because she acts like she's my twin. It's actually less flattering than that; she's like stalkerish, scary.... i used to be flattered...i started to get annoyed 2 years ago -__- at first i thought "calm....she's just trying to find herself, give it time...." okay, she's 14....you'd think she'd figure out some part of herself by now, but oh no, the 'copying' just continues, and she's getting more obvious. On top of that she keeps throwing herself at my best friend's boyfriend. So she just keeps finding ways to anger me in some way. I could list all the things she's 'adopted' from me, but that would literally go on forever.....and ever..... And recently...our vegas trip for a tournament was pure hell, well not all, but she made it horific.....GAH just had to get that out there :(
from the pic u posted in the boys vs girls section u seem hot, if this chick is too il take her off your hands in a few years -batman individuality isnt a big issue with me
lol (thanks) i said "act" not "look" but if you like the type of girl who thinks she's hot, then go for it i know; she has my hair, that's about it? i'm japanese/korean, she's guamanian pretty different...
lol well usually less attractive people try to copy the more attractive and popular individuals, so i suspect she isnt as good lookin as you, if she was she would no doubt have developed her own personality. She is probably copying you because you seem to have quality she wants. hahaha also kudos to the karate thing, im a major martial arts dude myself red belt in Tae Kwon do and brown belt in kung fu. -coolio
hahhahah omfg... fearless.. -lol watch out now... she knows martial arts... ahh we all wanna copy someone one time or another... and you see those kids trying to be their fav. idol superstar gangster singer... all of that... lotta dudes copied my style back then... that's why you gotta switch it up on 'em... -cool2
lol girls who know how to fight are hot. i haveta make sure to stay out of fights though. last time i got in one little fight and my momma got scared, she said 'your moving in with your aunti and uncle in bel-air'. I pulled up to their house around 7 or 8. I looked at my kingdom, i was finally there, to sit on my throne as the king of bel-air.
its getting tireing -___- especially since i had to take a big step and change my hair, my wardrobe....a lot of other things....did i mention she also flirts with my ex? haha fearless_fx: lol well her mom "boosts' her self confidence; i know she does. I overheard a family friend (mom) and her mom talking to each other saying stuff like "other girls (aka ME) are just jealous of my daughter because she's beautiful and popular".....ya....keep thinking that also, that's sick, i wanted to take kung-fu like my uncle, but my parents signed me up for karate like my bro (his reason for joining: BECOME A NINJA TURTLE!!)
yeah a part of me feels bad for her because she lives with her mom and grandma (divorced parents) but then again, her mom and grandma spoil her to no end; where do you think she gets the funding to buy "new clothes"?
karate is prolly less dangerous.. not as many weapons. I suffered some rank injuries from kung fu... had my finger cut down to the bone during a 2 person broadsword pattern V_V 13 stitches. -dead lol it was during a Chinese cultural performance thing too so i didnt want to stop. I was cut at the beginning of the sword pattern and managed to finish the whole thing. hahahaha my finger was feeling progressively colder and i didnt know the extent of the damage. hahaha at the end of the pattern i looked down and my entire arm was covered in blood -mellow needless to say, the person i was doing the pattern with, who cut me, got an earful.
whhahahaa... now that's cute... lil bro studying to be a ninja!! -lol you should take kung fu and wield the stick like no other!! crazy 8-diagram pole fighting!! you could change your attitude instead of the whol wardrobe thing..?? or throw on some lipstick high heels and start wearing a skirt...
well.. from the way you described it, my guess is she is not getting enough love.. especially sibling kinda love.. so she just yearns to have your attention. Especially when you used to be close to her (I assume). Maybe as you two grew older, and you start having a bf or sth.. then she is afraid of losing you. Im just guessing here..
O_O zomg the worse i got: i cut my finger during competition with a 24inch katana, i finished, but i left with my blood on the mats >.> of coz, i didn't win lol the worse i've seen: a girl in my division was sparring a massive godzilla; lost, and was carried off in a stretcher with 3 broken ribs :(
funny! but my style changes ; i'm very fickle i used to be totally tomboy until i discovered heels (they make you taller!) yay now i'm like playing the "can you find the real me?" game with her. I'm totally pwning
perhaps. but if she does feel that way, i wish she'd just tell me or at least hint that she "looks up" to me (she's taller >.> everybody's taller than me). Not just assume that i accept her actions as total affection and admiration
what an interesting idea you propose there xiaojia... or maybe you watch too much tv.. HwhahAHah... there's your cue fearless...
