be the protective friend?

my best friend really likes this guy who's friends with me. From the looks of it, they like each other, and recently, they just came clean to me about their feelings for the other. They've gone out and stuff, and they're practically bf/gf and everything's happy-go-lucky......except the it factor D:<

another aquaintence of mine throws herself at the boy and flirts with him in front of everyone, especially in front of my best friend. But, by nature, my friend is kind and doesn't have a mean bone in her body to stand up for herself. Me, being the polar opposite, wants to beat the living crap out of this girl. But, i feel like its not my place.

Should i be the protective friend, and try to 'talk' with this other girl?
or should i stand back and mind my own buisness?

i want to step in and draw the line, but i might end up hurting my friend somehow, i don't want to do that :(

(for those who read my rant thread, yes it is the same girl)

 

be protective =)

 

i'm starting to lean in that direction

 

goooooooooooood................."back of get ur own sandwich" =p

 

i think i would go to ur friend first and find out if she is bugged by this. i'm taking the answer will prob b yes b/c no girl wants to see a ho hang all over their bf, then i would go to the bf next. either u get ur friend to tell her bf that it bugs her, or if she's too shy, then u should talk it out with him. he should try to avoid that ho as much as possible. he should be considerate of his gf and understand that the next time this ho comes and starts to flirt with him (e.g try to hug him, touch him w/e), then he should just tell her that he has a gf and that she should bugger off.
by going to this ho, it prob won't do any good. she obviously knows he has a gf and still doesn't care. i understand u want to beat her ass. i have the same mentality as u. i don't sit and just silently vent. but honestly, i doubt she's gonna care wat u have to say.

 

mm i c ur point
those two are just two sweeties and they're both friendly people who don't want to hurt anybody's feelings. I plan to ask her about it soon, and idk about the bf cause he's kinda dense in that area.

but ya the girl (ho-ness) went up to him braless in short-shorts and a low-dip tanktop. My jaw literally dropped to the floor...i ask myself "how can you not tell she's trying to get into your pants?!" i have no answer yet

 

sometimes, you hav to let them learn it the hard way

 

Let them settle themselves.U will bring more trouble.

 

no point getting yourself involve and then later loosing a friend for being nosy.
if she need help or advice, she will come to you if she treats you as her friend.

 

Good Luck dude.u can give it a try.If there's any misunderstanding.Ready to face the consequences.U will be blamed.

 

ya, better prepared to loose everything.
your friend.
your dignity.
your self-esteem.
perhaps, you face too.

 

wow no pressure XD

 

i think if they like each other let them be. or u can intro the girl to me and she would totally fall in love with me instead if you prefer!
-tongue2

 

hey just tell your friend to handle it, if you do it for her then she will never learn from it and anyone could just step over her and steal her bf, so to speak.
is this other girl who's being flirty also a good friend of yours or good friend of the guys gf? if so she really shouldn't be doing this in the first place and your whole group should really come down on her and tell her about it. just straight disrespectful going for your friend's bf/gf.

 

'benjwang'.....introduce to you? ya, right.
if u look like your avatar, better save the trouble.

 

dude, i am my avatar that's y i am so dangerous! *u've been warned*

 

hahaha, and he still got roles in movies.

 

thanks. yes that too~

tip: i have a recent one out too =)

 

ya, the one on the front page (cheng zhong kei)
downloaded it.

 

i say leave it be if ur friends like each other so much then the other girl shouldnt really affect anything