How do you get a guy to if he's interested?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by bchanana, Apr 18, 2007.

  1. benjwang

    benjwang Well-Known Member

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    i will keep that in mind in the future
     
  2. ch0ps7ix

    ch0ps7ix Well-Known Member

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    good answer......
     
  3. edmundteh

    edmundteh Well-Known Member

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    wat do u mean good answer.
    ch0ps7ix would have flirt wit any girl he can get his eyes on.

    no offence dude.
    just commenting u avatar.
    hahahaha
     
  4. bchanana

    bchanana Well-Known Member

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    when we talk we always have a good time. we joke around a lot, and he always plays jokes on me. our friendship/relationship thing is way weird, but in a good way. he made me dinner last night, and he also brought me a midnight snack.

    do guys like it when girls are upfront about it? and ask?
     
  5. benjwang

    benjwang Well-Known Member

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    dude, sounds like he likes u. no guy will go thru that trouble if he didn't. i don't see y u are still confuse.

    being upfront in individual. not all guys can handle a forward girl. i like my girls forward.
     
  6. bchanana

    bchanana Well-Known Member

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    it just feels like at times he's interested and other times he's not.
     
  7. edmundteh

    edmundteh Well-Known Member

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    he's testing the market.
    he wants to know how u react.
    well, at least after dinner he didnt do more action.
    or did he? like jump on u?
     
  8. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    It really depends on whether the guy is conventional. I have some guy friends who openly say they will freak out if that happens

    finally see sth good coming from you.. haha.. jking

    well.. I think he is playing hard to get.. you know how fishing works? you give a little line.. tug abit.. that kinda stuff. So its either you wanna be his fish.. or start fishing.. thats entirely up to you
     
  9. edmundteh

    edmundteh Well-Known Member

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    dont go soft too fast.
     
  10. edmundteh

    edmundteh Well-Known Member

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    and dont play hard to get either.
    the guys wil just giv up.
     
  11. Jamien

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    Hmmm... I'm suggesting that you just get to know him longer. Maybe he ain't the guy you think he is. If he is, take one step at a time. I guess get a little friendly chummy with him. Laugh, touch his shoulders (friendly way i mean, not harrassing way). Let him know gradually that you like him.
     
  12. CharismaLee

    CharismaLee Well-Known Member

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    if u really like the guy, u shouldn't be playing hard to get!! the guy obviously has some feelings for you and maybe just seeing how ur reacting towards him!! maybe he thinks ur not droppin enough hints for him to make a move?!?!?!?!
     
  13. edmundteh

    edmundteh Well-Known Member

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    as i said...not tooooooo hard.
     
  14. Boss Lady

    Boss Lady Well-Known Member

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    Just be straight forward to this guy. Tell him how you feel without freaking him out, and not to be cheap... tell him you feel great about him, comfortable around him and would like to see him more often.
     
  15. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    I second that *thumbs up for boss lady*
     
  16. bchanana

    bchanana Well-Known Member

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    i guess we'll see how things go, because he's home this weekend. thanks for helping everyone.
     
  17. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    ^ all the best! drink some alchohol if you have to.. haha.. jus kidding.. that might just ruin everything
     
  18. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    good luck, just go for it. From the things you say he does i'm pretty sure he is interested. You say that sometimes he seems to be interested and sometimes not, well this is because guys also want to tread carefully and don't want to be screwed over in case the girl doesn't like them.
     
  19. bchanana

    bchanana Well-Known Member

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    um okay, so we hooked up last night, like we went to 2nd base, but the thing is, we didnt even make out or anything. we just messed around, without the kissing! we kissed once, and it was only a peck. Is that weird?
     
  20. jux

    jux New Member

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    Did you initiate it or was it him? And no. Its not weird. I'd suggest you get to know the guy more. How long have you two been talking [I skimmed over the thread] ?