Is a break up really final?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Paradiso, Apr 20, 2007.

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    it's hard man.. breaking up...
     
  2. Vinnie_boy

    Vinnie_boy Well-Known Member

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    I think Michelle would wait for a while and wouldnt get another guy. I think shes still expecting Jeff to change and love her back. While Jeff is wouldnt start come to sense and know that he lost himself a girl like Michelle go cos for him to do that he would have to tackle both his religion and his family which he sees as main priority so thats not gonna happen. So what i think is Michelle should let go of Jeff cos its only hurting her cos shes just expecting something to happen.
     
  3. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    This is quite common I will say.. Not everyone are secure enough to express certain feelings in them. They form this so called 'wall' around them, and its most likely not just Michelle.. but his family members might not be able to pass that wall either. It takes time and alot of effort.. but thats sth Michelle will have to do if she intends to wait for him. If a guy can't speak his heart.. he probably doesn't feel close enough to do so.

    I will think that this guy is just not committed in his feelings enough to face the problem of religion. When they dated he should have known, but used it as an excuse during break-up. No good.

    I dunno if she is good. Nth mentioned above tells me that. But I can tell its not worth the wait. Communication is key to a relationship. If they dun have it in the first place.. nth will work out.
     
  4. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    LMAO!
     
  5. Xx_Flora_xX

    Xx_Flora_xX Well-Known Member

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    wells, if i were michelle, i wud give jeff a try.....tho personally not callin / seein a gal for 2 months literally means a split up, jeff has got his own prob n as long as he explained everythg to her. i reckon its gona b ok. but all depends on how much she's still into him. coz if u can live w/out someone for 2 months , then u can live w/out him forever!
     
  6. chookie

    chookie Active Member

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    if jeff is willing to give up his religion opinion, then they definitely have a chance together. it really depends on jeff and not michelle.
    should michelle waits for jeff?... umm. this is a hard one. but if michelle is that determined, then i guess so.
     
  7. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    That will dpend on where Michelle and jeff are from! In my country, it's illegal for a Muslim to marry a non-Muslim.
    Actually, since jeff seems to be really stuck with his religious beliefs and family obligations, if this michelle really wanna b with him, she gotta b willin to convert to his religion. That could work things out. If not, she has to move on!

    P/s: Keepin in touch with ur ex regularly will NOT help u to move on.