Have you ever been in a serious relationship, but still kind of want more? First off, I am in a very loving and commited relationship with my boyfriend of 4 yrs. I had the weirdest convo with my him yesterday. Our relationship takes up so much time that he hardly gets anything done. We live together, and he loves spending time with me... there is never a dull moment, but I distract him a LOT from his work and projects. Yesterday I asked if I could have another boyfriend... LoL I know, a little whore-y, but he's the first one I've ever been with. He didn't really turn it down to my surprise. We both know we are going to be together, but this is just a temporary fix for me... If we do do this, I will only be with someone that can accept our crazy realationship and most important, someone who gets along with hm. Now the question is... what do you think of this, and will it work? One more thing, I've never cheated on him or ever plan to... but if he agrees to the second boyfriend, it can't be cheating, right?
lol u r weird!!! i konw u want a 3 some ...............i can guaranteee he'll say no to u haveing another bf
Hmm More like someone to go out with, but closer than a friend. My boyfriend will take no part in being with another guy, just me. Same with the 2nd boyfriend too. Is it just too weird or impossible?
Hahah... I don't know... he's prety confident in our relationship. He knows I love him, and trusts me without an end. He doesn't see that much wrong in another boyfriend as long as I'm still with him.
i had been into this kind of situation before. when i was in a relationship, i liked someone else as the same time. but i didnt tell anyone. but one day, i told my bf, and we started a really big fight, and he said he would let me decide if i wanna stay with him or leave him.... the thing is that even when guys say they dont really care, sometimes they do. if you boyfriend says yes about the 2nd boyfriend. i really dont think it will work out at all. he will eventually get jealous and starts having all these fights. and love is unexpected. you can be falling in love with the other guy.
I did... that's not a problem with me. He can have another gf! =] He says if I want to do this, then we'll talk more about it, but he doesn't want another gf. The reason why this is all happening is he's not getting any work done with me around all the time, so another girl would only add to the complications. Hahah
Totally get what you mean. My boyfriend is a pretty confident and very smart guy. His philosphy is that he's given me everything he's got, and if I end up leaving him... he did all he can. I'm the same way too, but he's been so busy... and I know a few guys who would love to jump on this twisted train. LoL
lol..........so hows ur sex life...jks sjks...i do'nt wanna know....................well if he understands ur situation then goood luck to u =)...how old r u =p
haha. your so lucky. i wish my boyfriend is like yours. my boyfriend is very sensitive. he doesnt let me do a lot of things like wearing tank top, skirts. not even talking to guys. it kind of sucks
I used to be like that... extremely jealous, but it's really all about communication with your partner that changes EVERYTHING. We all have a jealous streak in us, but that's normal. How does he feel about you on this forum? With guys on it and all?
rn't u still in skooooll or do u work??? u're not that oldd..i wanan move out toooo...u konw any rich hot girls? lol
I'm in school (busi major), we're planning to start a business in a few months. Yay! Hot, rich girls are meaner... is that ok with you? LoL
I really am not... I am one of the few who find it extremely hard to lie, I tried before when I was doing a prank, but everyone usually figures it out... hahaha Speaking of pranks, we're planning to do one on my friend this weekend... I'm hoping I can pull it off... hahah so gay
Yea.. but what exactly are you looking for? Or what do you expect to get from a 2nd concurrent relationship? I'm really curious whats the reason that makes you want more..
