If it's only one person with another bf/gf then it'll be really hard as it doesn't seem fair to the partner... I don't think that's a great solution...I've had friends with "open relationships" but both were allowed to date... I think it's odd myself...
god damn yo.... only four hours and 4 pages sprung out.... but yo... 2 boyfriends?! that has got to be the most ridiculous thing i have ever heard. no offence, but do you realize what consequences are gonna spring? number one: jealousy. one guy is gonna be jealous of another. its bound to happen. just a matter of time. number two: preference. speaks for itself. number three: altho you say you love him, the act of finding another bf to satisfy your needs shows that you dont love him. say what you might, but you do this, you have no love for him. number four: by spending time with the new guy, you will lean towards him more, and you will have a break up with your first guy. i will bet anything on it. number five: let me just ask one question. are you loyal to him? cuz if you are, no woman will dare do this. the only place ive ever seen this happen is in montreal swinger parties (not isolated to that place) like ipepsi said, and "Please bang my wife" (some of youo will know what im talking about lol). and plus... swinger parties is all about sex. not even about love.
yeah im sure theres gonna b lotsa consequences... well say ur current bf doesn't mind, lets do u do this then wats gonna happen with the new bf would he know abt wats going on? hows he gonna feel? don't think thered be many guys willing and knowingly to be the "2nd bf" (maybe kdotc... but thats abt it lolz)
^ LOL ahah and btw, some guys say theyre fine with something. but in reality theyre not. some other guys say theyre fine with it, to TEST a girl. you girls dont just test guys, we guys also test you lol
yeh, for a minute there i thought i came here to just read up on interesting topics and contribute something....but noooooooooo.... how wrong I was?! Personally I think the OP solution to their problem solves nothing at all and creates more problems then it solves. If the problem is he can't get any work done in his life bcos the gf is always around...well isn't the solution pretty simple? ---- don't live together. I'm glad she has identified that her life is not balanced, and needs other elements in her life like other ppl apart from her bf. The loneliness is a result of dependence on the bf, life seems to revolve too much around the bf, and the sudden lack of time spent together has resulted in a feeling of emptiness in life.
It's terrible!!! When i am with one bf, I startle when my phone beeps with sms.. i sweat when my phone rings and it's the 'other bf' on the caller ID, i stutter and almost whisper pathetically throughout the conversation when my bf hangs around. Gosh... never ... ever have two boyfriends at one time. "One leg in two boats"... It's horrible.
U know what? That sort of reminded me of my ex. He used to say i could haf another guy if i want to etc. but know this, they ALWAYS tell u they do not want another gal in their life even if u said it's OK... and if u r lucky , ur bf means it.. but if not, he'll just fool around behind ur back. But he'll never be honest with u abt wanting to be with another gal. And if my bf is so cool with me having another guy in my life, i'll be damn suspicious, even disappointed. Tat was how i felt when my ex was totally cool with me dating other guys. (afterwards, i found out he was dating other gal too but he never admitted that he WANTS to when i said he could do the same, u know what i mean?) I'd prefer if my man has a little jealous streak in him once in a while, shows that he cares and really wants me
here is the thing i find the most retarded. if someone lets their gf/bf go out with another person, and the gf/bf actually do go out with another person, then why the hell would the gf/bf say if the someone showed a sign of jealousy, then that someone would care for the gf/bf? why the hell would you go out with another person if you want your current gf/bf to care for you? do you really care for them back by going out with another person? look. if somehow by any chance i did let my gf go out with another guy, and she ends up doing exactly that, then its over.
I think u r the one retarded... read carefully b4 u post a comment .. I said "And if my bf is so cool with me having another guy in my life, i'll be damn suspicious, even disappointed". "if someone lets their gf/bf go out with another person, and the gf/bf actually do go out with another person, then why the hell would the gf/bf say if the someone showed a sign of jealousy, then that someone would care for the gf/bf?" What i meant is i prefer my bf to b jealous if i mentioned the idea of goin out with another guy and prefer him to say no.. and if he's jealous n said no, that means he cared. Duh. Is it so hard to understand the statement or are u too dense? "look. if somehow by any chance i did let my gf go out with another guy, and she ends up doing exactly that, then " now that is really retarded.. Why would u say yes and then break up with her for whatever u said yes to?
Hahahaha... WTF!?? haha -lol what's with you n 69 dude... damn she should go on that one show... where they hook you up with another person and at the end you pick whether to say with your original bf/gf.... what's that show called!?!
