At the moment I am in Shanghai with my BF, btoh of us are doing an internship at the same company. This is our 13th week now, only 7 weeks to go. Because it's a chinese company, not all of the employees know proper English so my BF and I will teach them some English every monday evening and they will teach us some manderin. There is a chinese girl working here, who can speak englishs very well. The first time we meet each other 9 on our first day of our internship), she immediatly said to my BF: OMG you're SOO handsome!( my BF is white and I am chinese)You look so good etc.etc. I thought: Oowkay-ann after a few weeks, she sometimes still say he is very handsome, good looking bla bla. Then she invited some colleagues, me and my BF to have diner in a restaurant to celebrate her birthday. She told me that her BF will also come, but a bit later. When he finally arrived, the first thing she told him was: Look this is (my BF's name)isn't he handsome?he is really handsome don't you think? I thought: WHAT!!!-shock are you going to tell your BF how handsome my BF is in front of everyone? and then she praises my BF that he can use chopsticks so well ( sigh there are many foreigners who use chopsticks right?it's not a big deal is it?) She had 2 small pieces of cooked banana thing on her own plate (I don't know what it is called but it tastes ok) she first asked my BF is he wants some banana and after that, she asked her own BF.And she has not asked me or my two other female colleagues if we want the banana or not. I thought: hmmmmmz I think I won't like it if my BF give his food first to antoher girl you only know for a few weeks and give it to me as last.... but that is my opinion And then I notice, that she sometimes stare at my BF for a while. I don't know why( maybe bacause i am a girl) but I think she has a small crush on my BF....... I have talked with my BF about it, especially about the diner and her behaviour. He said that if I was her and I said the same things, he also will think that I have a crush on someone. It is the same for me, if he said those things in front of everyone, I would also think he has a crush....... a few weeks have been past, yesterday my BF and I have made a small exam/test for some employees about English. Just to see how they have improved in the past 12 weeks. She (the girl) already knows proper english and made no mistakes. There were 3 employees who don't know English very well and for the best of those 3 we had a small prize.So the girl acctualy was number 1 of all the people but she didn't received any prize ( if we gave her, t was not fair for those who don't know any english) So today, during lunch they were talking about the English test. She said: o, I got all the questions correct and I didn't get any prize. Not even a kiss from ......(my BF's name)I thought: <_< -ohmy what did you say? you want a kiss from my BF?? excuse me?? Although she was laughing, I don't know it was a joke or serious. I know she has a BF, but they only meet each other once a month....unsure In a normal relationship when you are in love.. is it possible to see each other once a month? So I don't know, am I overreacting or am I just allergic to everything she say/do? Do I have to let it go and let her talk and do whatever she wants? (sorry for the big post)
omg....i bet she don't see white guys often....yo watch out cause they're gonna "open room" if this starts to happen
Just play it cool... After all ur n ur BF are not gonna b permanently based in Shanghai... it's just another 7 (gruesome) weeks to go Just keep an eye on the two of them being 'alone together'...
wat? i would. btw, is it weird that the entire time i was reading the thread, all i could think of was, "she wants a green card!" gosh, i have issues
if that girl is hot then u should b proud that u have ur bf...is that girl is ugly then daymee she ain't getin no action from ur bf hahah
thanks kdotc, very nice to hear that they can ' open room' GROM<_< but I am not sure she has met white guys before, but I think so, she studied English literature or something and she only has international customers but do you think, she has a crush or not?Because I really don't know
yeah she has the hots for him. if u have that feeling, ur prob right. girls have that thing. we can just tell when another girl is after our man. evolution.
hmm i think u and that girl should just go and have a talk since u both know english and chinese there wouldnt be much of a barrier that would confuse what u say plus if it turns out bad only 7 weeks to go right? but if you talk it over and she understands then she will fuck off right?
come on...we all gota admit it......china's got RELLY slutty girls....i hear girls "open room" just to get customers for insurance and stuff...i say u give ur bf a curfew lol and limits
My BF and I both don't think she is really pretty or very ugly, kind of normal. not very tall, a bit chubby, specially her face. She always giggles, even when you talk to her. But she is nice person, all of the employees are very kind and helpfull.
well its not his fault some girl is mackin on him right? just go out for a cup of coffee wif both of them and talk dis shit over der its all done
ecko u really need to check a doctor with ur threesome fantasies but OT yea its really weird.. but u dont know what the other is thinking.. maybe that chinese girl is straight forward and just says what she thinks... just if she touches ur BF give her a flying kick
yep. then if that doesn't work. then lay the smack down on her!!! u've tried to be nice, but since she won't back off, then she's needs a good beating. Russell Peter's dad-> "someones gonna get a hurt real bad"
yea exactly... maybe jus being friendly and you're completely overreacting... that kinda behavior is def. gonna kill your relationship in the long run...
they're just all friendly =) don't u know they''re always extra friendly to foreigners =P they were wat i thought extra friendly hehehehe but then again, it could be they wanna get out and just need sum1 to take them ehehhe
