So there's this one annoying girl in my class who keeps asking me to do random favors for her (drive her to Jamba Juice, burn her CDs, help her with homework), and the problem is that she's friends with this girl I like, so I don't want to be mean to her and give the other girl a wrong impression. I wouldn't have minded if she just asked me once or twice, but she's been constantly bothering me these past few weeks. Now I want to know how I can tell this girl to stop bothering me without actually saying "stop bothering me" or NEXTing her, in a way that wouldn't make me look bad. Last week, I tried telling her that I was too busy with my studies to burn this one DVD for her, and she told me that she could wait. I couldn't do much. Yesterday, she asked me about it again. What do I do?
I have a feeling it's either this annoying girl (according to you) likes you or she knows that you like the other girl and that's why she give you all the headaches. The mentality of the latter case is not unlike "may be this guy isn't worth my bestest friend's tears, let me rip him a new one and see what kind of person he is"
If u don't want to do any favors for her then don't. U like her friend, NOT her. so go start doing favors for her friend!
I've told her that MANY TIMES, but that hasn't stopped her. And no way am I going out with her. So in the event that she really is testing me out, should I continue doing these favors for her, or what should I tell her?
Hehe, sounds indeed like this 'annoying girl' is trying to get your attention. Hey, don't you have another friend whom you can direct her to? (I'm sorry I don't have much time, but that other guy can help you')
Well, the thing is that I'm not very well acquainted with her friend. -sweat I've seen her around school in the past, but it wasn't until I met girl A (let's just call the annoying girl, girl A) that I was formally introduced to girl B (her friend). We've only spoken a few times, so I haven't had the opportunity to get to know her very well yet. The only time I get to talk to her is when girl A is present. So I'm kind of worried that if I screw up with girl A, I might not be able to keep in contact with girl B, since they are somewhat close friends. LOL I wouldn't do that to my friends. -rotfl Trust me when I say she's annoying. It's not purely due to the fact that she keeps bothering me, but her whole attitude and personality is annoying in general. Sometimes, I wonder how she could be friends with girl B, who's the complete opposite. But I guess there must be something good about her that I haven't noticed.
Oi, maybe Girl A does know you like her friend but she tries to win you over first and she knows you have to get past her before you can get closer to B, hence A have some 'power' over you? Edit: What to do in this case? >>>the first next time you get the chance to see/meet Girl B, you just ask her to do some favors for you, like helping with homework and this can give you an opening for another time to ask her out?
Hey, that might work! lol I don't have any classes with Girl B, so I can't really ask about homework, but I suppose I could just make something up. I don't want to ask her out on a date or anything yet, because.. well, she hardly knows me and I kind of want to take it slow. As for girl A, I can't be sure if she likes me or not, but one thing is that whenever I ask her about girl B, she'll answer in a very casual manner and then change the subject. Not sure if that means anything though.
AH I get the picture now.. Then why not ask A out TOGETHER with B on an outing? Movie/shoppin etc. Then that will give u the chance to get to know B more. N once u break the ice with B, u don't haf to go thru A anymore. Seriously, i don't think doing A favors would win u any brownie points with B. B might even think that u like A. i mean once or twice is ok, but if it's on a regular basis, that's different. Does B even know u r doing favors for A? If not, it beats what u r doing doesn't it?
Grow a spine and say no to girl A. While you are at it ask girl B out. If girl B really likes you she won't want you to be her friend's errand boy.
I don't know these girls but from the info I've gathered in your posts, I think it does mean something if Girl A change the subject whenever you ask about B. Girls can be very subtle... Maybe you can try this: you just confront A by asking her about B: "what kind of type is she? Do you think she'll like me? I want to ask her out, can you help me? Ah, I always do you favors, you can help me out with this now?" If A is reluctant answering or avoiding this, you know what time it it. Skip friend A, go directly to B, you've nothing to lose and you at first just want to know her better, nothing wrong with it. -sorc
^ lol... get a friend to tag along for whatever event u plan to hold in the nearest future to block the cock-blocker
lol or something... or maybe the girls feeling out the guy n actually scouting for her friend... oohh then that willl def. suck...
omg, I was in the same situation as you a few weeks ago. On AIM, this girl kept asking me to download sh!tty music for her. I know her from Chinese school. My last convo with her went something like this: her: download xxx for me me: no, I'm not your download slave her: PLEASEPLEASE PLZPLZPLZ PLZZZ //insert pouting smilie face me: no, find someone else her: c'mon don't be such an a$$ me: well, what do I get in return? her: a kiss? me: no, I want something valuable. 50 cents so I can buy a soda? her: you're such a jerk 15 mins. later... her: fine, i'll bring it tomorrow me: k me: *sends song* her: ty ty ty //kiss. so how was your day today? me: *signed off* Next day, she refused to give me the 50 cents. I swear if she wasn't with her whole class, or there weren't any teachers nearby I would've lifted her by her legs and shook her till her wallet or whatever fell out of her pocket (or phone, and say "then I'll take this"). She's on my block list now.
hahah so u'd say no to a hot chick if she asked u out? lolz wow ur lucky!! i don't get these annoying ppl no more >< lolz i take it shes not a hot/cute chick lol
