I love sex, but no... it's not a foundation for any realtionship... and if it is, then that relationship isn't going to last very long. Is it just me or do white people have sex as much as they change clothes? I don't want to even get started with the hispanics... I've had sex with only my current boyfriend. He's had sex with about 7 other girls, and I think that's A LOT!!! He is really getting into religion, so he wants to wait till marriage to have sex again. He believes I am the one so he wants to do it the "right way" with me. It's been 10 months and no sex. I think THAT is the hardest thing to do! To have had sex, and to not do it. I think that's why abstinence and premarital sex still exists. The harder thing is to do it, then stop. I've been getting a lil crazier lately. LoL
in a relationship sex does n doesnt matter..........i wouldnt enter a relationship just for sex but i mean i would like some if im in a relationship....but i wouldnt want the girl to do anything that she didnt want to.....i wouldnt force my gf to do it if she didnt want to.... some men actually find virgins an atractive thing... i dont but hay i know ppl that do... its just how long the guys willing to wait ...... the guys that never call back just arnt willing to wait for u too long.....as for me ill stick to non virgins virgins are nice n all but they are boring as FU*K
People are against the idea of premarital sex mostly due to religious reasons. And the fear of pregnancy. But if u talk about whether sex is an important part of a relationship, i do think so it plays a part. If a couple is not happy in bed, the relationship will tend to suffer. One advantage of doing it b4 marriage is u can find out if u r sexually compatible in bed I believe that's quite important.. haha The point is, never have sex if u don't feel like it, or do it just because the guy won't like it if u don't or worse, threaten to break up with u. Do it when u r ready. When u want to. U'll know it when the time comes. Meanwhile, stop fretting abt it. If the guy is not happy with u because u dun wanna haf sex, dump him.
Hey you shoudnt worrie to much about im 19 and still havent had sex, my boyfriend is pretty understanding about it he docent pressure me or even make any comments over sex. Sex shoudnt be your overll thought about your relationship it only brings up complications.
LMao... ahahha god damn... somebody break this girl off some... -lol hahahah... damn if your bf ain't even gonna have sex till yall married... why you still trippin over the Shanghai girl??! yea no pressure at all... and uhh... hahah I just wanted to say nice avy... -lol
yeah no pressure man if sex is all he wants you can just give him your sluttiest friends phone number and say "here enjoy" thank you by the way
hahhaha wtf... yea so uh... maybe you should gimme a pm or something -whistle... you know I mean.. cause you seem like a nice person.. and I'm sure your friends are as well... maybe attach a few numbers on there too... -whistle
im sure it depends on wat type of relationship if all it is is just a sexual one, then of course its important, as thats the only thing ur there for =P
Even in a relationship where it's all about love, sex is still important Unless u wanna b a monk. It's not abt u bein a pervert or horny ass but the strong feelin of wanting to make lurveeee to ur beloved.
i always like to say if the guy likes and even better, loves you, well, he can wait. what's the big rush for? and the right guy will turn up. not all guys will have had sex before they turn 20. just a little side note thing: someone once gave me this illustration: virginity is like an unopened can of soda; it's new and unopened, untainted in a way. vice versa, there's an opened can of soda passed around by several people. bear in mind all the different saliva in there by the time it gets to you.
If you meet a guy who avoids you just because you're a virgin, then flag him, he just doesn't know what he's missing out on just because of this stupid idea of his! you're better off with someone else better than him!
Sex is a part of a relationship. In a relationship, everything is seperated into portions, it might be a different percentage for each person depending on the person's values. To me, sex is about 25% in my relationship because when you find someone who loves you then having sex is like making love where you feel completely different. You should have sex when you're ready, not because of the pressure of the guy. Guys do care if a girl is a virgin or not, if they didnt care about the issue, they would not ask you how many partners have you slept with. Almost all guys ask that before they get in a relationship with you to make sure you're not a slut. Being a 20 year old virgin is a good thing because it means you're trying to find your first love to lose it to, keep that in your values, don't let anyone convince you to have sex with whomever to get experience because that's just a waste of time and it's stupid, because at the end, you will regret it once you do find someone you really like, and you will feel dumb for having sex for fun or to get experience. Lust and Love are two different things and the sex in both are completely different! You have to remember that! If you decide to keep your virginity till marriage then it's something you should be proud of and be well respected because in this world today, not a lot of people can do what you're doing right now which is keeping your status as a virgin, congratz =)
i agree with Lychee... bottom line is that if he's really into you, experience won't matter. Virgin or not, you're just as likely to get a boyfriend as the next girl. You just haven't met the right guy yet. After all, there are still people who don't have sex before marriage.
Well.. maybe here's another way of looking at the whole situation... guys who wants to date you and knows that u are inexperienced in sex, are not looking for a life long partner but someone who's willing just to have sex with. Looking at the statistics of high divorce rate could also tell you that marriages nowadays are not working out becos people are getting into marriages without understanding what it means to be married. Marriage is perceived like a contract nowadays but not a covenant. Sex plays a vital role in marriage and it's designed for both man and woman, however, it's been abused and pre-marital sex has been justified cos one "must" know how good your partner is before getting married. If both parties are "inexperienced" in sex and they learn how to enjoy each other thru the marriage, there's no prior expectation of each other to perform and spend time learning to explore and satisfy each other.... that's what it's meant to be..
It is important, but what do you do when thats all the guy thinks about? I think it's too over rated sometimes...
Well well I don't really like sex when I was little until I found an -censored in my house I was disgust but I became addicted. Anyway I wouldn't forced sex on someone or dump them if they're not a virgin because I only care about our similarities and hobbies. When I say this it doesn't mean I hate sex but I want to have it as well with someone I loved and only if she agrees to do it first.
