What would you settle for in a life partner?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by BabyRain, Apr 25, 2007.

  1. p3ps1c0la

    p3ps1c0la Well-Known Member

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    Hahaha I just can't do... I've looked over your list a couple of times and I can't choose. I refuse to believe those are my only choices.

    I'd be happy with a normal girl that loves to have a good laugh at whatever. Even better without makeup.
     
  2. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    Who the hell would want to be screwed by an ugly @$$ person (if not for the money)? Doesn't matter how experienced they are in bed, the fact that they're ugly will not make the experience enjoyable.

    How can an "Average Joe" be less than average looking?

    I think you have your options all screwed up.

    Anyway, 4 if I have to choose.

    99% of good looking people are not faithful? Give me a link to your assertions.
     
  3. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    Hmm.. I will take both 4 & 5 then. 4 for the bed and money supply.. 5 for the emotional support and financial management.

    haha.. jking.. I would stay single if those are the only options
     
  4. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Like i said, the option u choose doesn't necessarily mean what you want in a life partner and all that.
    I am curious about what people would settle for (the lesser of the devils) IF there's no other choice...
    that's y you are thinkin all my options given are screwed up. It's intended to. If there's one option that's not screwed up, what is the purpose of giving these options in the first place???

    Perhaps i shd phrase it like this :
    which would u find is acceptable/tolerable :

    1. Dull in bed
    2. Ugly
    3. Unfaithful
    4. Mean
    5. Mediocre living
     
  5. chabunky2000

    chabunky2000 Well-Known Member

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    I'll pick #5.
     
  6. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    I wouldn't even choose from that list in real life...

    In theory I would pick 5)Mediocre living...but I'll end up having dangerous hobbies like sky diving, illegal car racing, become a free lance hitman or so. -lol
     
  7. p3ps1c0la

    p3ps1c0la Well-Known Member

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    I plead the fifth.
     
  8. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Ah, to those who settle for mediocre living,
    so you won't get to buy whatever u fancy and treat urself to a nice lil sth OK?
    Seems that money is not so important after all :)
    I am beginnin to think i am a greedy person hehe.
     
  9. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    Hehe, yep that's right, money isn't that important to me!
     
  10. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    I wish i can think so too, but I seem to be wanting a comfortable, even luxurious life... argh.
     
  11. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    Well.. basically what I meant was I wun settle for any of them.. even if there is no other choice. If you haven't realise by now, marriage isn't a compulsory phase of my life
     
  12. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    @XiaoJia pls read the above -what?
     
  13. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    ^ its the same. I dun see a need to settle for less.. i rather settle for none. Can't accept that for an answer? haha.. sorry if I offended you then.. but thats my choice.
     
  14. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    OK i can accept that.. U r sayin u won't settle unless u find ur perfect one. Fair enough.
     
  15. casshern

    casshern Well-Known Member

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    Doesn't necessarily have to be PERFECT. Just better than the options you've listed.
     
  16. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    I think the options are fair enough and realistic. They each have their pros and cons.
     
  17. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    Well.. cass knows what I meant. And I dun think your options are fair nor realistic. You only have like 6 options when there are probably thousands of other combinations out there. Your options have particular bias notions in them.. where certain attributes are in opposition to others.. and that it what I think is unfair.

    Since you only listed 6, I assume you are just asking us to compare between the options given.. and hence my answer: none.
     
  18. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    @xiaojia : if u can't choose from the options given, that means u want a person with all the qualities :
    1. Good-looking or average looking
    2. Good in bed
    3. Financially secure and comfortable living
    4. Nice
    5. Faithful
     
  19. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    ^Thats an assumption. If given the above qualities to choose, I would go with 1,2. The rest just have to be neutral. And I dun mind a below average for 3. Cos I can earn my own money. But there are other qualities I value more: intelligent, creative and adventurous.. just to name a few. And of cos, must have the 'feel'.. something I have yet to find any association with qualities.
     
  20. edmundteh

    edmundteh Well-Known Member

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    i think i have to make my own statement.

    ~ nice and faithful, Hot looking, good in bed, careful with money, faithful ~