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Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by whoaitselaine, Apr 21, 2007.

  1. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol. -lol i dont talk to other guys as much.. i usually hang out with girls & all my girlfriends are single. -sweat except for one..but she's older than us & her boyfriend doesn't like to hang out with us..& i barely talk to her bf also so yeah . =.=
     
  2. don

    don ello

    so is that guy still always around you bugging you?
     
  3. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol yeah sortof. today i sat next to him in class & we were doing group projects. even though we were in different groups, he kept poking me & like doing other stuff. =.= then the girl who sat in front of him was like "stop flirting guys." and iwas like "o.o" then later i was talking to him again & he was bothering me..and the girl who sat in front of him was like "you know you should ask her out. and then when you guys get married you could send me the wedding invitation." and we all startedcracking up -lol.
     
  4. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    SO did he ask u out?
     
  5. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol...no-cry2
     
  6. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Awwww....I feel sorry for you... I know what it feels like...waiting and waiting... knowing that the guy likes you...but he just dont have the guts to ask u... Are you sure you are giving him enough hints... i mean...u act interested in him?
     
  7. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    actually im not REALLY sure if he likes me. but maybe.. and i think he started avoiding me during lunch after what that girl said...-cry2 ahh.he wasn't talking to me that much at lunch.

    and im not sure if he's getting my "hints" >.<
     
  8. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    Ermmm...yeah some guys seem to have problems with that... but its weird that hes been avoiding u... could be becuz hes embarrassed but could also becuz he doesnt like u? Hmmm....not much u can do about it...guess u just have to.....w.a.i.t >_<
     
  9. don

    don ello

    seems like you have a little something for the guy
     
  10. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    I think he is more embrassed. I think you have to do something to get him talking again, ... or u could lose hime forever :(
     
  11. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    aww.. he is feeling embarassed.. haha.. then y dun you ask him out instead? kidding.. maybe just hold it for the moment. sometimes doing nth can be the right choice.

    Btw, what do you personally want out of this? figured it out yet?
     
  12. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    ^ I think she wants to have a relationship with him.

    @elaine, just wait and give him some time, it really does seem that he's embarassed getting caught red-handed. Unless if you want to speed up the process, have a talk with him. Some guys have a hard time revealing their feelings unless prompted.

    Btw, what kind of hints were you dropping to him?
     
  13. don

    don ello

    or just give me his number lol -lol jk jk
     
  14. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    hahahaha. Somebody has to make the first move, either her or the guy, but it seems the guy will take a long time to do that. :D
     
  15. estelleccl

    estelleccl Member

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  16. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol one day after the bell rang, i was waiting outside our class for my friend to walk with me but i was also sorta waiting for him too. and like the other day i asked him if he was coming to lunch and stuff.. lol idk if that counts..?-unsure and i don't know what else im supposed to do to drop some hints. >.<
     
  17. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    The first one wasnt a hint at all, you should have told him that you were waiting. 2nd one is too subtle and you need to work on harder on your hints to make them work. -smileb
     
  18. Arctic_fire

    Arctic_fire Well-Known Member

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    it's hard to know, different from ppl to ppl..
     
  19. xiaojia

    xiaojia Well-Known Member

    ^ lol.. not even bother to read last page

    Hmm.. looks you are pretty keen on this relationship aren't you?

    What abt making bold moves?
     
  20. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member


    give sometime to the guy to figure it out. ...maybe drop the same type of hint AGAIN. maybe he will figure it out soon. If not then tell him directlly ehehe