So a friend in school needs some advice. He likes this girl in class and he sometimes he talks to her. He has already asked her out but she said no because she didn;t want to start an out of town relationship. Now, they are not talking much, but he still likes her. He sees this other guy going up to her and chatting her up and he is sort of jealous. What he noticed is that she seems to talk to the other guy more but he is confused because she goes out of her way to see him when she leaves. She does not talk to him before she leaves. He wants to stop talking to her all together and move on but I'm telling him no. I think he should continue talking to her and see if something can come out of it. Did I give him the right advice? What do you think?
if she's not already dating someone, which i guess is the case, have your friend ask again? cuz first he needs to figure out if she really just doesn't want an out of town relationship or doesn't like your friend much and the out of town stuff is just an excuse
I have a feeling that girl is just not ready to start a relationship or just doesn't like your friend enough to start one yet. Maybe she does like ur friend a little, since u said she went out of her way to talk to him but she's not really into him yet. I'd say give her some time and try to forge a closer friendship or sth before pressuring her into a relationship. If she still says no after a few months or so, she's clearly not interested.
OMFG!! It's ecko!!!??? hmmm. seriously though, I think he should move on. why stick around and hope a relation can start?
OMFG!!! IT's adrianc!!!?!? hmm if he gave up already... no sense in persuading him to continue the chase...
ahh the friend zone, where girls tell guys all about their boyfriend problems because they think you care.
ah >.< the "brother" status w/ a girl... lol that hurts sometimes thought me and this girl had a thing until it turns out i was just brother status, oh well, she made a good sis heh
Girls usually ask guys to be their 'god-brothers' if they think he's a nice guy but at the same time not romantically interested in them... And esp if she thinks the guy likes her, it would be an excuse for her to be able to continue hanging out with the guy and at the same time not giving him false hope.
This looks about right. I wouldn't read too much into her going out of her way to look for him either. She might want something
<p>not enough info, </p> <p> </p> <p>keep talking to her and flirt and dont get jalous when she talks to other. Not really concern u anyway. </p> <p> </p> <p>Kepp making jokes and liks some other poster has said, do those small flirts etc.. thats what couples do before they are couples anyway..</p> <p> </p> <p>then ask her out again and see where it gets u</p> ________ RGV250
i think u gave homeboi some bad advice.... obviously the girl aint feeling em.... she rejected him once (regardless of an out-of-town relationship) that was her way of saying no the nice way instead of saying "go out wit u?? id rather kill myself".... n pluus u see it cus she doesnt even try to talk to ur friend....yet shes throwing herself at the other guy ...... but hay its not ur friends fault hers ugly or not charming enough to get girls... and its not ur fault u gave ur friend horrible advice but no ones perfect what should do... is get the other guy she talking to.... to play her ass for being a bi*ch jk dont do that its wrong
lol.. your fren probably shouldn't give up so fast.. but if he has given up.. then your opinion will make little difference. If he hasn't really given up, what you say will just spur him longer.. So dun worry too much abt whether your opinion was right anot.. o.. do update us on his progress.. haha.. we love gossips
