how do you know if.

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by whoaitselaine, Apr 21, 2007.

  1. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol i still dont know what kinda hints to give him. -unsure
    & i have known him for the whole school year except i never talked to him that much until recently

    lol but it's scaryyy >.<
    &btw, do guys play hard-to-get just like girls? o_O;
     
  2. DuchSauce

    DuchSauce Well-Known Member

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    I do sometimes. I'm sure other guys to as well. Is he Asian? You know lots of Asian guys don't have the nerve to approach a girl, if you're waiting for him to make a move, you could be waiting for a long time.

    Also subtle hints don't generally work as most guys are oblivious.
     
  3. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol yeah he's asian.
    ugh, guys are so confusing & so hard to understand. -doh -cry2
     
  4. Jun

    Jun Well-Known Member

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    ^ the same can be said for girls ;D
     
  5. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    I guess Asian guys in NYC is like that?

    @ elaine, my 2 cents, just wait till he comes around. Build a more solid friendship base first before rushing in.
     
  6. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol i live in NYC. i don't really notice the guys around here though. o_O;
    & thanks for the advice wind-hug
     
  7. voxov

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    hey elaine.. DuchSauce is right in a sense.. nowadays, it doesnt really matter who makes the first move. if u think you have a good feeling towards him, u can start talking to him.. cracking jokes with him.. asking him to tag along for lunch.. any small actions like these slowly add up to create a relationship. and i bet he will respond positively as well if he has similar feelings to u... who knows.. after a while he might be the one making the first move~!
     
  8. wysandman

    wysandman Well-Known Member

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    sounds like a junior high crush.
     
  9. don

    don ello

    ummm most guys takes a while to read the girl's mind....it's just like solving a riddle