^hehe. kdotc could be girl or guy, apart from the fact that 康仔 is right beneath it. anyways, i think i'll stick with kathy and just ignore jen but thanks to all those who helped me realize i'm not paranoid.
If You said her SN with a filipino accent...it would translate to "She Cannot Breathe" heh ...oh and B is probablY jealous of You cause she wants to be A's best friend heh
i'm scared to fight a girl, not cuz i'm a gentleman but cuz girls are fierce when they fight. when a guy goes down, he knows he's down. when a girl goes down she still thinks she's winning. plus scratching... pull'n and kick'n at things they shouldn't ... i surrender -surr guy fights have unspoken rules, but girl fights are free for all -dead but about your friend situation... its definatly jealously because your taking away time for them to be all alone together -ohmy if u dont want an enemy, keep your distance. if u don't mind the n continue what your doing. 3rd option = focus on friend B maybe invite them both to a movie or something and arrange for friend A to not make it the last moment. and of course chat a lot with friend B if you go this route
i think 'jen' is just real insecure.. and she probably ain't the type who openly shows how she values her friends? just doing some guesswork here, but maybe u can try to be jen's friend instead of just seeing her as kathy's friend?
oh your in one of those situations someone must of bad mouthed you before B even met you therefore B's already got a preconcieved notion of you it's their first impression of you yes even before you've first met
haha, well.. uhh. i barely even know jen. i don't even know her name and probably have not had one conversation with her yet so asking her to go anywhere is out of the question, seeing as the only times i see her are when she's with kathy and even then i decide not to talk to her. after all, what is there to talk about? i get along with kathy, not jen. at least i won't be seeing jen after this month.
Why won't you see her after this month? Does 'Kathy' have an opinion on this? Or does she not see this?
i don't know if kathy sees it or not. i'm guessing not. after all, the idea of it seems kind of absurd. why would jen do all these things? it's not like i'm the kind of person to "steal" a friend or whatever jen is thinking. besides, i barely (literally, barely) know jen. and it's because the summer's coming. even when i'm in generally the same area with jen, i don't see her on a daily basis.
Girls are quite possessive in terms of friends, if B feels that you may replace her place as "bestest friend of A" she may get really hostile and competitive...
