I really hate it when they act like jerks around me. I was in higschool once and this chick use to treat me like crap. I never spoken to her and when i said something to her she was all snobby and then i asked her "What's your problem?" And her response was "You". Later on i found out she had a crush on me... Why do some girls act like jerks around guys?
Because we are all embarassed by our emotions. Like guys like to pull their favourite girl's pig tails when they were young...
We don't like it. We just tolerate it more, the more good looking a girl is. But when that threshold is past, hello passive agressive payback....
Lolz. I have a tendency to be very aggressive Seriously, I kick and punch my guy friends all the time... They tolerate it though xD They're awesome <3 I'm not pretty and I'm not particularly special, but it doesn't mean I can't get a date. I guess it just depends on what kind of guy you are, ne? If you prefer not being in control or want to dominate someone for the fun of it, then you would choose an aggressive girl, ne? ^^
Only if the guy is a masochistic pussy. That's just abnormal. It's like saying a girl likes to be tormented, abused, and treated poorly; although these girls exist, but any other girl would say she is abnormal too.
Girls should always play the hard ball game. When they show too much care to the guy, the guy will not be as appreciative and affectionate to them. So always hide your true feelings to the guy and just play the game.
But don't overdo it; if you play too hard to get, the guy will just give up and move on to someone who's easier. Moderation...
Personally, I don't like girls acting rude around me. I treat girls with respect and I expect the same from them. If they cross the line, i would show them how bad I can be.
There's respect, then there's joking "mean" aka teasing. The line can be quite thin at thimes... but I would prefer serious respect instead of tolerating harassment any day =_=b
I think the key here is moderation. I somehow find it attractive when a guy seems 'not so caring' towards you and 'jokingly mean' with you but when something serious happens, like for eg, you take a fall, he'll be right beside you in no time and askin you are u alright. Or when you are ill in bed and he'll visit u with food, puts a wet towel on ur forehead etc. The look of concern on his face wld be priceless then... compared to someone who's like politely respecting u all the time.
its ok if a girl is playfully mean towards me...as long as she doesnt treats me like trash i'll be fine =P
@kachi: i guess it's a defense mechanism. i've experienced being friends with a guy and acting normal around them but once i started developing feelings for them, i noticed that i'd be really self-conscious and be over-thinking things i've said to him or things he does for me, etc etc. so at that point, my "normal" friendship has disappeared because all these other thoughts consume my mind and i've lost all notion of what a "normal" friendship would consist of. and my defense mechanism is to act nonchalant so as to not seem interested in them b/c i'm worried that he knows i like him. sheesh, feelings of attraction can really mess with a friendship. but i guess it's the person. i think it's good that everyone goes through this scenario at least once in their lives so they can learn from it & won't abuse the next friend-turned-object-of-affection who comes along.
