Ok so the story goes like this. I liked a girl and I started seeing her, but it wasn't official it was more like just for fun. She seemed really nice and all but had no interests what so ever in common with me so I told her we should be just friends. A couple days later...or weeks don't remember, we go drinking and she starts making out with me....when I am passed out. WTF So now I stopped talking to her completely, deleted her email, msn and blocked from face book and even ignore her at school. A couple months later rumors starts popping up saying I had sex with her. A couple of my friends tell me she told people she had sex with me...and this is pissing me off. Why would someone start a rumor like that or if she did say something why would she, it is immature and retarded. If your going to say something about people say it to their face and don't talk behind their backs. This is the main reason I hate high school. Drama and rumors are what everyone talks about...and this is why I don't generally socialize with a lot of people. Why do people do these kinds of things, seriously it is immature and childish. Arg, so now I just can't wait till high school ends just because this is stupid and is killing me.
^Don;t worry its all part of highschool. u do know rumours die down in a couple of days right? Give it a week or 2 and i swear no one gives a damn. Heck! Your scenario just happened to my best mate. She started the rumour to get your attention, but what ever you do, play cool and dont give her the benefit of the doubt. If u go off at her you lose because afterall, this is a game she made up.
haha the title made me laugh rumours die, they will find something new to talk about soon. anyways boys can get away with those kind of rumours, its her that looks like the slut if shes spreading that crap
LOL, usually it would b the guy boasting abt havin sex with a gal and this is the other way around?! This gal obviously doesn't care abt her reputation and dignity...
in your story there is some flaws.. 1. how you know sure you guys didnt had sex when you are passed out 2. oké you want her to tell it in your face... but em.. didnt YOU ignored her.. and avoid her? dont think its only her fault.. since you did something wrong yourself.. like drinking so much to pass out? and also maybe she was drunk to? and didnt knew what she was really doing.. and you dont even listen to her side of story and just /block /ignore her? who is immature here?
Uhm i don't think it's physically possible for you to have sex when you passed out. For a guy, that is...
I don't get why you tried to completely cut her off from your life, just because a girl you LIKE and were SEEING made out with you?! This is why kids shouldn't drink...
^Well probably bcoz she made out with him without him being aware of it ... He passed out. If a guy made out with a girl who passed out, it's called 'molesting'. So he's pissed off that she violated him
He feels violated? Get over it buddy, she was probably drunk too maybe didn't even realize you were passed out, cutting her off was way to harsh.
^ i agree with you.. the punishment of being ignored sux... why be so immature and ignore someone? talk about it like grown ups :S
Wait, let me get this straight: you ignored/blocked the girl YOU LIKED because she made out with you while you were drunk? What the fuck's wrong with you? Be a man, coward. Then she (THE FEMALE) goes on ahead and spreads rumors about her fucking you? Please spare me the humor! What are you, a celebrity? What would she get out of spreading rumors about banging an introverted punk like you? EVEN IF THIS SHIT WAS TRUE, what is there to complain about? It ain't like you're the female here being molested and raped by someone you like.. shit. Pussy. Move along e'erbody, nothing to see here.
^ lol.. jealous this didn't happen to you? haha.. kidding but yea.. I do agree that your side of the story alone.. suggests that you didn't really handled the situation in a mature manner urself, so dun go ard putting the blame on the other party alone. Besides, it sounds as though you haven't even gotten ard to verify the origin of the rumors nor come up with any plans to stop it. Imagine, if those rumors wun spread by her, she is also a victim. And due to social norms, she would definitely suffer more than you in that case. Yet you choose to run away from it all?
if she insisted that you had sex with her then ask her to go for another round! Why not? She's already done it with you before and should not be refused to do it twice. Let the rumors go and soon she'll be just as dissappointed as you because the truth is, she was not telling the truth!
