you ask for help when . . . .

Discussion in 'The Lounge' started by smallrinilady, May 4, 2007.

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you ask for help

  1. when needed

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  2. only when you are desperate

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  1. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    are you one of those people who ask for help all the time, if people are willing to help than why not take it? make life easier?

    I have a friend who always asks everyone about this or that or this or that, becuase she is too lazy at fact finding
    to the point that she was to lazy to get a job application or submit it to the place because we already had a friend who worked there. She also asked the friend to ask about this and that to the point it drove him nutz
    ok so maybe she's uses people a little TOO much, but yea



    or are you one of those people who REFUSE to ask for help unless your in deep shit
    whether it be because you dont want to be a nuisence
    or you need to prove to yourself (or other people) that you can do it on your own
    or becuase you dont want to look weak, that you need help
    or becuase you dont want people to know what your up too



    i notice i tend to be one of second catagory
    which is funny
    I love to help people though, but i hate asking for it

    to the point i get rather dissapointed when people refuse my help
    but i notice i do that a lot too, i refuse help from other people

    but what is hitting me hard is that my guy and his brother are moving
    and although my guy doesn't mind me helping, his brother really does mind
    so they keep rejecting my offer to help
    and it's kinda mad me rather sad about the issue
     
  2. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    i reboot and i'm all good.
     
  3. ug1yu

    ug1yu Active Member

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    I'm the guy that only ask for help when i have no other option left.
     
  4. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    nani?
     
  5. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    well...i fall in the category that i don't depend on rely on anyone for anything.
     
  6. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    I don't like asking for help in general... But I try to be helpful (if I can) when asked...
     
  7. Loreen66

    Loreen66 Well-Known Member

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    Rarely ask for help from anyone, unless its related to school work.
     
  8. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Depending on whom I have to ask help from... If it's someone not so close, I would ask only if I am really desperate. If it's someone close, I ask when needed :p I mean tat's the advantage of being a gal, u get to act the maiden in despair.
     
  9. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Hmmm, BabyR as a damsel in distress?!
     
  10. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Lol... yep that's what i meant...
     
  11. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    ^ You know, that sounded oddly hot. I bet there are A TRUCKLOAD of knights in shining armor on PA ready to serve :p
     
  12. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Uh... no, definitely wouldn't count on PA guys...-nono
    Majority of them neway...
    Lol i am so gonna get flamed for this.
     
  13. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Meh, most of them seems to be occupied somewhere other than PA at the moment (probably because they have this thing called life while I am lacking this thing called sleep)

    So who cares ;)

    Plus, you get to see them NOT help a damsel in distress when you are amidst a flame war :p When they are back that is...
     
  14. Knoctur_nal

    Knoctur_nal |Force 10 from Navarone|

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    we got a truck load alright..but of what..now that is the question..
     
  15. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    ^ Who's that "we" you are talking about??? Your army of darkness? Then we know it's a truckload of "knoc's army of darkness" :D
     
  16. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin


    Count me in.. No life and lack of sleep >.<
     
  17. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    ^ You are not supposed to be sleeping in the middle of the day (not really anyways)... but I should have been sleeping like... 4 hours ago @_@b
     
  18. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Lol in case you haven't noticed, my sleeping hours are all haywire now.
    Gotta adjust the system soon.
     
  19. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Well, I was just granted the freedom to sleep til whenever, I am going to max it out for now :D
     
  20. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Right.. ur finals..
    So when's ur trip coming?