Ok..i was wondering right, in public how can a guy "chat up" a girl. Do they like it or do they find it scary? what is the best approach to strike up the convo without scarying them? Im askin this cause every thursday after i catch the train from uni back to my house i always spot this eurasian hottie and i asked her for the bus number the other day and she replied in a VERY FRIENDLY way. Any ideas?
And i thought u were a girl...-shrug Anyway, abt ur qns, probably depending on how the guy's first impression to me is. Whether he looks creepy, or decent. If she replied in a VERY FRIENDLY way, then well, why are you still hesitating to make the next move? -huh?
If ur cute and not creepy...it shouldnt be a big problem... I have bad experience with strangers talking to me... old uncle or creepy yellow fever types =/
Maybe next time i just approach her and ask her for a pen whilst im pretending to be talkin to my mate on the fone? then when i hand the pen bak to her i say "Thanks beautiful?". Howz thhhhaaaaatt!!? >.<
dont talk like a gangstah but anyhow.. be yourself lol... by not being creepy.. dont make weird sounds -noclue
lol dont pretend.. just start a conversation.. like.. are you also on this uni? never seen you before... i suck at this prolly =.= girls help this guy out lol
^Gung hai lah!! She wears her school uniform! But im sure she doesnt know im an uni student. I only spoke to her once and that was for the bus question
It's really lame, but just talk to her... about the weather, exams, etc etc @_@b "Every time I see you at this bus stop, I just forget the bus route I should get on just so I can ask you about it. Do you think I can talk to you about something other than the obvious bus route?" or something
Hmm creepy... Many types of creepiness. Creepy in the sense that the guy's talkin to u and smirking or grinning as if secretly having some kind of weird/evil/kinky thoughts; creepy in the sense that the guy's lookin at u funny; creepy in the way he talks maybe, the tone of his voice... dat kind of creepiness haha. And pls don't try that out ... That borrowing a pencil n sayin "thanks beautiful" thing -ann it's very corny. Just greet her and maybe say "Hi... see you here every week.. which school do u go to? (cause she's wearin a school uni) I am a student at blablabla" so it appears you ask a common, not so personal question and at the same time introducing urself as a student at so-and-so uni so she won't think ur some kind of psycho from somewhere. I mean, it's quite usual to strike up a conversation with someone u meet at the train station every thursday. So what do u mean by she replied in a very friendly way though? Did she give u her number?
@Resentless: I do? Don't think so... You are better in this than me resentless @BabyR: Yeah, corny's the word... And lame @_@b And may even be classified as "creepy"
nah your a girl... ill do my best to understand them.. but the female species are really complicated... they can change in a second
But dont girls like cornyness? She responded in a nice way...like you know, the tone in her voice and stuff.. Im not quite comfortable with the fact about asking her skool and stuff cause that is IMO creepy :/
Since when do girls like corny? U can go ahead and try that if u want Uh, I am not askin u to ask her her history of life@school or her resume, I am askin u to use that "which skool u goin to" thingy as a conversation starter. And depending on her respond, u can either take it further or take the hint she's not interested She wun think it creepy if u reveal where ur a student at ... It's very COMMON for students to ask that. Hmm, responded in a nice way, but not nice enuff to give u her number? Well u probably shdn't haf asked for her number first neway.. Go with sth like MSN or email maybe. I wldn't give out my number easily as well.
