How do ladies prefer to meet a man?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by ribsandbbqbeef, May 4, 2007.

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How do ladies prefer to meet a man?

  1. Being asked out in public by someone who finds you attractive.

    5 vote(s)
    20.0%
  2. meet online, and then date

    1 vote(s)
    4.0%
  3. Meet him through friends

    14 vote(s)
    56.0%
  4. Meet him at a bar

    2 vote(s)
    8.0%
  5. Date a coworker/collegue/classmate

    13 vote(s)
    52.0%
Multiple votes are allowed.
  1. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Oh my bad. because you said gf.. and not ex-gf so I assumed... -shrug
     
  2. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    -shock What?! I have PA stalkers?! -unsure Who?
     
  3. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^One of em shd be the green guy
     
  4. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Right now I refuse to acknowledge who you may be hinting =_=b
     
  5. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Lol... i'll not say anythin else least he whips out da list
     
  6. WinterSky

    WinterSky Well-Known Member

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    lol... that first choice "Being asked out in public by someone who finds you attractive." sounds really crazy, i wana see that happen lol.

    @girls if i walked up to u (uhh, pretty cleanly dressed, not creepy, no drugs, no bad odors) and asked without anything thing else "wana get a drink, my treat? i wana chat and get ta know u" and there was a starbucks or a boba place near by, would u say yes?

    and what would u think about a guy like that? weird? cool?
     
  7. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    ^ Depends (but not always). I have had done things like that :p

    I guess I am just bored.
     
  8. WinterSky

    WinterSky Well-Known Member

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    ok ok... how about if you had a friend w/ u? and 2 guys approached u both, and same as before, cleanly dressed etc

    seems girls are more comfortable with a friend around (actually... who isn't?)
     
  9. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Nah, coz it'll just be weird if it's 2 of us vs. 1 of him/her in conversation @_@b
     
  10. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    @Wintersky: I picked that option actually... but it's a pity I have never been hit on b4
     
  11. WinterSky

    WinterSky Well-Known Member

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    @hiake oh i forgot to include, 2 guys, 2 girls so like ur chill'n on a bench at a mall and 2 guys approach u, aprox your age, dressed "normally" (normal to your tastes ^_^) and him+his friend offer u and ur friend a drink.

    any reason to turn him down? also, if he asks for your number... how willing would u give it up while you have nothing in common. (because i can see why you would give a number if for instance, u went same school and studied same stuff or he invited u to some sort of social club or something) i would guess zero percent, unless either you or ur friend falls for'm?

    @babyrain - save the honor of being first one to ask u for me -worship -hug
     
  12. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Aww that's sweet... but it wld never happen now, wld it?
     
  13. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    ^ I don't give my number out easily :p email perhaps :D

    @BabyR: Somone's hitting on you~
     
  14. chan

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    I think in a disco of a bar.
     
  15. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    ^ I wonder why girls give their numbers so easily in bars and pubs... probably coz they are drunk?! -shock

    I really can't think of a more un-safe place to earn a stalker...
     
  16. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Yep. Coz they are high. n horny lol





    Maybe i shd edit that ...
     
  17. ribsandbbqbeef

    ribsandbbqbeef Well-Known Member

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    That's probably why men try to meet women in bars. I think most women go to bars because they like the atmosphere & music and just want to have a drink. Only a small percent go to bars specifically to pick up a man. Am I right?
     
  18. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^some women ->Like the atmosphere & music & just wanna haf a drink & maybe gettin picked up by a man.
     
  19. xxsweetheartxx

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    if meeting that guy at work or from a friend I probably would be okay about going out with him.. however, it would be nice to have some stranger ask me out in public on the street! It'll definitely boost my ego hahah
     
  20. Aya-chan

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    Personally I would prefer meeting aquaintance via friends.. at least they've been somewhat vetted. Co-worker is okay too, but still could get awkward, but there are risks to most of the options... I feel really uncomfortable when people come up to me and ask for my number though.... >.>