lol... that first choice "Being asked out in public by someone who finds you attractive." sounds really crazy, i wana see that happen lol. @girls if i walked up to u (uhh, pretty cleanly dressed, not creepy, no drugs, no bad odors) and asked without anything thing else "wana get a drink, my treat? i wana chat and get ta know u" and there was a starbucks or a boba place near by, would u say yes? and what would u think about a guy like that? weird? cool?
ok ok... how about if you had a friend w/ u? and 2 guys approached u both, and same as before, cleanly dressed etc seems girls are more comfortable with a friend around (actually... who isn't?)
@hiake oh i forgot to include, 2 guys, 2 girls so like ur chill'n on a bench at a mall and 2 guys approach u, aprox your age, dressed "normally" (normal to your tastes ^_^) and him+his friend offer u and ur friend a drink. any reason to turn him down? also, if he asks for your number... how willing would u give it up while you have nothing in common. (because i can see why you would give a number if for instance, u went same school and studied same stuff or he invited u to some sort of social club or something) i would guess zero percent, unless either you or ur friend falls for'm? @babyrain - save the honor of being first one to ask u for me -worship -hug
^ I wonder why girls give their numbers so easily in bars and pubs... probably coz they are drunk?! -shock I really can't think of a more un-safe place to earn a stalker...
That's probably why men try to meet women in bars. I think most women go to bars because they like the atmosphere & music and just want to have a drink. Only a small percent go to bars specifically to pick up a man. Am I right?
^some women ->Like the atmosphere & music & just wanna haf a drink & maybe gettin picked up by a man.
if meeting that guy at work or from a friend I probably would be okay about going out with him.. however, it would be nice to have some stranger ask me out in public on the street! It'll definitely boost my ego hahah
Personally I would prefer meeting aquaintance via friends.. at least they've been somewhat vetted. Co-worker is okay too, but still could get awkward, but there are risks to most of the options... I feel really uncomfortable when people come up to me and ask for my number though.... >.>