Have you ever feel being apart?

Discussion in 'Chinese Chat' started by [mJ9], Apr 29, 2007.

  1. [mJ9]

    [mJ9] Well-Known Member

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    Have you ever feel being apart from your friends(i mean,friends that are not of the same culture)?
    i has this feeling at school,so prefer avoid them.It's as if they are racist..
     
  2. ch0ps7ix

    ch0ps7ix Well-Known Member

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    no....
     
  3. CharismaLee

    CharismaLee Well-Known Member

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    its just a case of being slightly different to others....they may not be racist but just don't understand ur culture!
     
  4. Tassadar2k03

    Tassadar2k03 Well-Known Member

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    yea haha i only talk to asians at school =X
     
  5. hkm91450

    hkm91450 Well-Known Member

    Yes, I've had that feeling before. It's like their culture and way of life doesn't match with mine, so nowadays, I mostly associate with fobs.
     
  6. [mJ9]

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    yeah,you are lucky but in my class there are only 2 chinese,me and another girl.Therefore,i must talk to others
     
  7. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    what if they were racist

    when i was in elementary school
    i use to think i was unpopular because i was weird
    then i moved, and my new school, suddenly i was very popular, i didn't understand why


    now that i'm older and i looked back, i understand why
    becuase lots of the kids were racist against me
    they were racist against asians (because there were few)
    and racist against native americans (but there were quite a few of them, becuase the school was near a reserve)
     
  8. [mJ9]

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    yeah thinks you're right smallrinilady..
     
  9. jlsv1996

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    Sometimes I feel that way too, it's as if they're really different from me and it's hard to relate. It takes me some time to get comfortable and as stuck up as it may sound, I need them to approach me first and put forth the effort to gt to know me. It's not that I'm stuck up, it's just I don't really know what to talk with them about so it's easier for them to come up with the topic.
     
  10. [mJ9]

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    Nice philosophy but what if they don't approach you?
     
  11. dtNet_PA

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    Life story eh? I really think this society is limited as hell.
     
  12. [mJ9]

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    no..the society is not that limited but asians are limited..lol
     
  13. Flames

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    I get that ever since uni has started...
     
  14. Arctic_fire

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    I havent, no asians in my school..
     
  15. [mJ9]

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    Exactly,the problem is that there is not enough asians...
     
  16. Arctic_fire

    Arctic_fire Well-Known Member

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    not really, if there's no asians, u go with the white ppl ^^
     
  17. [mJ9]

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    no white ppl..there are only indians,muslims,catholic..
     
  18. Arctic_fire

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    what's wrong with them?
     
  19. [mJ9]

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    No, they take you differently,not like normal people...some may say 'chinese are not people'
     
  20. there are only like 10 asians at my school, but everyone treats me pretty much the same