breaking up through sms...ok or not ok?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by philostrate, May 6, 2007.

  1. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Except I think it's OK for those who started the relationship via sms...
     
  2. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    ^ Which is not very nice either...

    Starting and ending a relationship via SMS is just so... inappropriate.

    I guess the film industry glamourize SMS a bit too much @_@b
     
  3. SugaCutie0

    SugaCutie0 Well-Known Member

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    It shows such a lack of respect, that is so sad. Face to face may be the most difficult way to break up, but is the best.
     
  4. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Of course it is. Unless it's long-distance or Internet relationship where you never met up in the first place :p
     
  5. Tsuioku

    Tsuioku Active Member

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    Starting by SMS, I can accept... but ENDING... is totally unacceptable...
    Even if it's a long distance relationship, I would say you should at least call the person up...

    Nothing against you babyrain.. just my 2 cents...
    But never meeting up in the first place... lol.. reminds me of the olden days w/ betrothed weddings...
     
  6. Aznflyboi

    Aznflyboi Member

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    definitely not ok
     
  7. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Dont worries, I am just kidding. I don't believe in ending by sms-es... Never!
     
  8. Kooslee

    Kooslee Well-Known Member

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    That is cruel, but look on the brighter side if you girl/boyfriend is violent. This is the best way to go to avoid black eye or physical injury.
     
  9. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Well, any decent human being should not be violent and beat others up. So there. That person would not be my boyfriend in the first place...
     
  10. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    In my opinion, using sms to break up with sum1 is kinda raw cos say the other person wants to make it work out but they can't really convey their feelings across using sms..then they'd lose their chance..

    Also it would be kinda awkward if you see that person everyday, regardless of what happened..sometime its better to do face to face so that both parties have a chance to say the things they want to say rather than keepin it in n mayb regretting it in the future..I think this way, you'd kinda feel better inside n could at least stay as friends...

    But i suppose sms could be used..But it depends on the person themselves..
     
  11. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    quite a rude n cheap way of sayin bye bye to each other...the guy hus fault is - deserves a right kick up the bollocks for that lols
     
  12. tynalim

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    definately not ok.. wth.. its so mean..
     
  13. winonachan13

    winonachan13 Member

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    wel I think is nt the best way to end a relationship. I alway think that ending a relationshipp is the best way face to face. That is what I do all the time, cus I think that is more fair.
     
  14. k2_wun

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    I don't think thats okay. I mean, a breakup must be hard for either person, so the limited amount of words on a text is too little to say!
    Defiantly don't do this!
     
  15. xixi

    xixi Well-Known Member

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    break up should be done in person, not over internet and definetly not over sms...
     
  16. htmnguyen01

    htmnguyen01 New Member

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    I think communication is real important in a relationship. If you need to break up with someone tell them to their fave and not through the phone. I believer that the other person will respect you more because it is a difficult thing to do. But when you do it over the phone, it just shows how much the relationship meant to you, nothing. So alway tell the person face to face.
     
  17. j_ayumi

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    I think its not very responsible to break up by sms. These are serious things so i guess its better to sort it out face to face.
     
  18. dannylak23

    dannylak23 Well-Known Member

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    yup.. i agree definitely not ok.
     
  19. je t'adore

    je t'adore Well-Known Member

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    yea y not
     
  20. SUSIE-DANG-1988

    SUSIE-DANG-1988 ~ TVB ADDICT ~

    breaking up through text is sooo lame?!!?!?!

    i mean dont they have the guts to tell you face-to-face!!! geez.