it's not fun to feel like a nusience

do you ever feel like your are just bothering people


I keep trying to hang out with some people, becuase it gets lonely living by myself
but then sometimes i a vibe like i'm getting in there way, they just want to go do some stuff without me. They dont live alone therefore they dont get lonely

 

its ok.....call out some pa ppl =)

 

yes kdot is always available he doesnt have much to do =)

 

naw yo my schedule is filled with leng lui's already

 

Join community clubs to make new friends. -^_^

 

you trying to say she aint a leng lui

 

Don't point that out... or u may get Kdot in hot soup.


@Smallrinilady:
I feel that all the time! I am a very alone person myself; but mostly this insecurity and awkwardness stem from our lack of self-confidence.
If you believe you are a great person; then you have no reason to believe people don't want to spend time with you..

 

you have a point
but at the same time not quite the same in this situation
it's just that
because i've been lonely lately (becuase this is my first time not sharing a living unit with anyone), which causes me to want to hang out with people a lot!, to the point I kinda overstay my welcome . . .

 

i feel for you ... but dont be offended by me asking " how long have you been living alone ??" i think you're just not used to the lonely life yet... give it some time ... life is not just about going out ... because too much of that .u will just get bored !! dont make yourself sound like you cant live without anyone ... its just gonna make you look more irritating !!...

live your life like flying a kite ... this may sound like those relationship metaphors or watever

 

yea this is a new experiance before

it's been 5 months

 

you can/should have lots of wild parties at your place if you are living alone! yay!

 

maybe try finding something to do at home that keeps you entertained!! online games ?!?! read books ?!?! some kind of hobbies like knitting ?!? clean the house ?!? revise if your a student !?!? get a nintendo wii ^^ ?!?! yoga?!!? download stuff to watch !?!? learn how to cook !?!? watch tv ?!!? find an online friend?!!? find a bf ?!?! etc etc etc etc ,,, all worth considering !!

 

i hear you smallrinilady i have the same feeling when im chilling with my friends i get this uneasy feeling that i dont belong... its like they doing their own thing while im just standing there alone being a nobody

 

Right ... I'll believe that when I see it ^__^

@smallrinilady: I totally know how you feel! Even though this thread is really old, I still want to post on it, because I like to relate with people =) Anyways, whenever I'm around this certain group of people, one of them is always making me feel left out. Like they already have their group, so they don't need me there kind of thing. And I get really sad. So I get mad at that person and I reject them a few times after that. Then I find that they come running back ^__^ It's like the more you ignore them, the more they want you -huh

 

^^^lol true for a lot of ppl.. is better not care about how others feel about you except yourself.. just live your own life and have fun

 

live life the way you want to and if they think you are annoying then tell them to not be your friend and find a new batch simple deal