I dont think sex is REALLY REALLY important, but is kinda important as its a stage we go through in life, it enhances trust n love between partners.. RElationship can still work even if partners dont have sex..whether they're of age or not.. Also have sex when u n ur partner feel ready, not just because u have to.. For me, some of my friends expected me to have sex cos i'm of legal age now n were suprised when i said i dont want to cos i wana wait til i get married...my friends respect that so does my BF as we have the same views regarding sex..
yes, sex is important in a relationship, but only because you two are in love. stick to your belief and don't let anyone change your mind, 9 out of 10 men would prefer virgin wife!
Let me share my 2 cents.... For Guys : SEX is a part of relationship.. It is how a guy feel secure and trusted by his party. Guys in normal, are lack of self belief.. they need to have some VERIFICATION.. Bear in mind, having SEX and Making LOVE is 2 different thing.. Having SEX, you can do it to ANYONE.. Making LOVE is when you are doin it, you FEEL the other party and care about how they FEEL... For Guys, Sex is a part of Love and relationship... For Gals : Sex is NOT a part of relationship.. Most of the gals will give in to her partner after some pestering from the partner.. Gals MAKE LOVE and rarely HAVE SEX. Gals will only do it with someone she has FEEL... Dun rush into anything that you are not ready.. You need to think about the outcome after you have your first time... You need to prepare all the THINGS needed before sex, you must have PRECAUTION and not just simply has it.. Pregnancy, HIV and Sexual Disease.. you must know and understand before doin it. Anyhow.. Handle with care and always BE SAFE.
Your last sentence "Gals will only do it with someone she has FEEL" is not true. They can do it for money.
The "do it" part seems like refers to the "have sex" part of the previous sentence. "Gals MAKE LOVE and rarely HAVE SEX. Gals will only do it with someone she has FEEL... " Now that I read it again, I guess he does mean "make love."
Err.. i was referring to someone who is not doin it for Money.. if they do it for da dough, that is her profession which I think does not relate to what i am saying..
if you ask married couples for a list of the top ten things that are important to their relationship, most likely sex is among them but i'm betting 5th or around there, or lower. and if it seems like "everyone's doing it". well, there are a lot of people who aren't. because of the people i'm surrounded by, i could say that there are a lot of people who are virgins. although in reality, there is probably more premarital sex going on because of media in general and the messages tv shows, etc convey. i'd wait for a guy who respected my wishes instead of being selfish in a way to say that "i don't want to be with you because you can't satisfy my physical needs".
Well, making love is something special between 2 people. When both feel ready and go ahead with it, it's a wonderful thing. Sex is one of man's basic needs and we should acknowledge it. But this does not mean that men have license to go screwing every girl!!!
sex is wat we human do..with out it life suck......if u can have sex with ur dream girl or man and they are naked in front of u wat r u going to do...man u thing will go up and try to get in...hehehehe be honest guy and girl
I personally think sex is not that important in a relationship...For me its more about how much you truly love and care for each other. Firstly, if the guy truly like you he would respect your decision and those are the guys to die for. If they break up with you cos ur not willing to have sex, i think those guys wont be of any good at any rate. For guys, when they date most of the time they go for experienced girls but when it gets down to serious business they go for 'clean' girls. So, do not feel pressured about it. Do what you feel comfortable and girlfren, virgin is a one and only thing once its gone its gone always bear that in mind. Last but not least, it takes a man to know the right girls to go for.-smart
^That's what happens when smartasses get too technical with the topic OR if they don't know what the thread was about in the first place (referring to you, aznlostboy83). The initial point of the thread is "Is there anyone out there who believes that a good relationship can work out without sex?? ".
as for me i dont think sex is a must in relationship....because i believe that if we love someone we shouldnt love about how good is your partner for sex is right? anyway dont believe guy too much lol...coz they will never tell the truth...and the truth is that, mostly when a guy want to marry they likely to prefer girl who is a virgin or at least not so experience
