I was thinkin my list will be long but just to sum it all up I'd say: 1. ungentlemanly 2. selfish 3. stingy 4. Jealous 5. Cheats
I don't see what's unreasonable about my list. I just list out attributes I DON'T like. I didn't say I cannot compromise if the person has GREAT personality. It's a general guideline.
the long and demandings lists kinda indicates qualitities that the person writing doesn't pocess (if they do, they wouldn't be disturbed by it...) ...hence we have some near to perfect people around here =P
LOL We are listing the PERFECT classroom example of someone we WILL NOT date... Got to have ALL the turn-off attributes -lol
WTF?! Who SAID THAT?!!!! The person who have suggested such a thing probably need to talk to my friend the devil here, he would probably like your soul to be part of the "worst personality" shelf.
My lists when i look for gf: -smoker (smoking kills) -fat (eating more than essential, causing over consumption, which is a kind of greed) -materialistic (people have ups and down, cant expect to live in the golden age forever, sometime we need to work hard to maintain fiancial stability, meaning saved up for down payment and collegue funds, rather then more gifts and 5 stars restraunt) -dumb ( simplely cant stand people who make obvious stubid disisions, than ask y did that happen. Seriously if the theory of evolution apply to civilization, they would all be dead) -unfaithful (I am not asking for an submissive asian wife who will do what ever I ask, but I certainly cant stand those who cant be loyal enough to commit themself in a long term relationship) - evil (i believe in budda, what u do in present will affect ur future. evil to others, and others will be evil to u. U dont have to be god blessed angels from heaven, just dont intentionally cause troubles for others) and finally -addicitied to gamble (if u want money, there are appropreaite ways to do that- saving, re-investment, real estiate, stocks, funds etc. etc. Throwing money on a casino table and hope u win something in return is just stubid. ) My list is short but there are meaning behind each turnoffs. I dont expect to find Ms perfect. Hence i wont goes into looks, cutness, family background, virginity, or style. But those listed are things I just cant stand. Relationship isnt about perfection, is more about trust, bonding, and compensating eachothers pros/cons. ________ TC305
-er "My lists when i look for gf: " Are you saying you looking for all those that you listed for a gf?
Hehehehe..... Have you seen how long my Mr. Perfect list is? -rolleyes Absolutely a big NO! I'm a hardcore Atheist and I don't believe I will never argue with a partner who does believe in a god. (The Buddhists/Taoists are a different story) It will only led to tears and divorce because of that. (huge different views on life)
