lol.. fearless.. I agree with you. I really wonder why there is so much discussion about girls dun mind fat guys etc when its so true that this guy/gal has more problems to handle than fatty issues.. OR he/she is just bullshitting everyone with his/her only 2 ridiculous threads: 1 abt finding abortion in m'sia; and e other one this. Somehow my instinct tells me the later is closer to the truth.. -whistle
How about get to know her, let her FULLY comprehend the reason you needed to have an abortion (for someone or urself, whichever) THEN u ask her. Lies don't make a good relationship. Besides, if the reason is bad (for the abortion), and she found out about it she may dump u. So how about a little truth and a little understanding on her part? May work.
i keep dating and dating ... but then i find out i really having communication barrier with human... maybe communicated too much with computer :( and i am a speedy person hard for other party to cope up with me. and i am sometimes too hyper until ppl think i am crazy, and moreover i like to do experiment on my own. some online think i am some phyco or somethings >.< >.< >.< >.< >.< >.< >.< any gal can help me out here how to get on a date ? any location in malaysia nice to go on with girl ? i been at work>gym>runing at road side > bed only that all i been doing for years :(
awww....don't worry you'll find someone =) hit the clubs there are nice girls there...or the library =) do experiments on your own? (we are all psycho in some way....)
Library.... ? but how can u start to talk to them? if i am a guy who look at book on the 1st page also will get asleep.
the library part was just a random thing...(spends way to much time there...) hey get your friends to hook you up with someone =) that usually works
in big group or as a blind date...[setting up blind dates is fun....(anyone want a date with a cute blond guy i know? =P haha)] i never look for a date or for a guy..they tend to show up in my life at random times...
Wait wtf? uhh.. Are you a he or a she.. or are you bisexual..? I have nothing against gays or bis..-^_^
its all about confidence..if u can make her laugh and happy..ur halfway there...but dont get too over confident...or she will think ur a slimeball
Overall, I think people try to hard to look for a gf/bf. Usually, when you don't look for someone, you'll meet somebody quite interesting. At least, that's how it happened to me...I was never interested in looking for "flings". And my relationship started out as a hate-love kind of thing...and successfully has been 3 years.
lol...putting it in laymens terms @shuijei people say if it happens it happens, but people also say nothing will happen if u dont make an effort ...so basically ur stuck...catch 22-dead